Thank you so much everyone for your replies. I talked with him last night and asked if he would like me to come and he decided to go with two of his mates and the boys mother was taking them. I know the mum so gave her a call and she assured me she would look after the boys and she will be there with them. She said she would take them to McDonalds afterwards if she see's that they are coping and then bring them to my place so they can be together for a while.

Regards,
Dianne