Hi Ash, how are you going? Have you had things checked out since the blood? Are you able to talk to your mum or grandmother or someone at all? I was 21 (just) when I had my first, not as young as you but still young.
I wanted to mainly say that I commend you for coming and trying to source information and asking for advice and help. That in itself is an enormous step and is something which will help you deal with whatever the circumstance is. to you.
umm well i have been feeling a bit sick, always hungry, need to pee alot, massive modd swings ova da lilist things, i dnt know if i'm pregnant yet because i only just had unprotected sex not even a week ago, i'm plannign to take a pregnancy test on monday. i though if u mis carriaged it would be like a blood clot...omg i'm so worried. today i had heaps of blood, more than usual come out, nd it was bright red. i got lumpy boobs to, cramps, headaches sometimes.....
Is the blood you are experiencing period type blood or more?
It could be the result of a miscarriage or it could just be your body responding to coming off of the pill and getting back to normal. I know that when I came off the pill my period was all over the place, my period pain was much worse, I did not have any on the pill, my breasts were sore and so on, this is why I say it COULD be a normal side effect from coming off of the pill.
If it is alot of blood, more than a normal period, if there are any clots, as you would only be 3 weeks pregnant (2 weeks before you had unprotected sex and 1 week since) then you may not get any clots as it is so early. If you have really bad cramping then I would suggest that you go to see a GP or the hospital.
Do you have anyone to speak to in real life? Your Mum, older sister, friends Mum?
the blood i'm having is a really bright red and it isn't more than what i get in my period and there is no clots..i read that when u go off the pill u usually dnt get ur periods for a like weeks coz they all ova da place, so cnt see why i'm bleeding? i've only had a few lil cramps, the first time is was just underneath my belly and was like a re arranging feeling and squeezing type feeling.
Do you think you could not be pregnant. I know with me when I am on the pill my period is light and when I am off the pill my period is really heavy and abit painful and some months a few very small clots. I get headaches also and it is much much heavier then they are when I am on the pill. Maybe it is your period and its really heavy in comparison as now your not on the pill. I hope you are ok I can imagine how scary it must be not knowing whats really going on and having no one to talk to. Can you see a family health nurse? They could do a pregnancy test and confirm if you need to see a dr for more tests or if its a heavy period. They are not aloud to disclose your information to anyone so it would be confidential. Thinking of you. I was pregnant with my first at 16 (had her at 17) my parents didn't know I was pregnant till I was 6months (had her 11weeks after they found out) as I was too scared to tell them. My mum guessed before I had the courage to tell her.
yes i do think i could be, well i think is the key word....when i sed the blood i am losing is heavier i meant heavier then the little streaks of blood i was getting a few days after i was supose to get my periods....its not heavier thn when i use to get my periods when i was on the pill....i only think i am pregnant because of the symptoms and because i had unprotected sex 3 days ina row after being off the pill....and i have been so hungry since...and i only just seemed to get full..after a port chop and vegies..a double cheeseburger...and then potato chips and smileys lol. i usually woda gt full afta da chops. and i have been feeling bloated, like in the mornings i usually wake p and my tummy looks heaps skinny and feels skinny but dis morning it ws heaps bloated....nd i been gttin lil stomache cramps nd other symptoms....ah i cnt wait to jus tke this pregnance test on monday....
i aven't told anyone this yet but i'm so scared, today i cried at school because i'm so scared to lose my boyfriend over this and i feel like im the only one around me that doesnt think this baby is some sort of demon! i have secretly been fantasising over a baby...yer i know at the age of 15 (nearly 16)!! crazy hey. and u know i think i wood love it and wouldnt actually think having a baby is that bad if my boyfriend didnt think and act like it was the end of the world
i think i would be a wonderful moher and sometimes think that thats what im meant to do, not go through all this stress of school...trying to get into unversity...its so stressful.....
i dnt understand why i am bleeding atm...why why why lol. i wish i cood go to adoctor but when??? how?? does it cost money???
omgand u know what i just found out..that my boyfriend told me.....that this girl tash who ive met through their family and shes pregnant well...it could be his!! coz they were both drunk at a party ages ago and yer..u gt da picture.....he nt sure if it is but yer!! i dont know what to do. like omg what if it is, will things change between us..gosh dis is too much for me lol. if anyone cood help...soz if the message is too long....
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coz they were both drunk at a party ages ago and yer..u gt da picture.....he nt sure if it is but yer!! i dont know what to do. like omg what if it is, will things change between us..gosh dis is too much for me lol. if anyone cood help...soz if the message is too long....
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