Is this normal 15 yearold behaviour? tmi

[Trish]

Personally I think the bit about the brothel is a load of BS, just a teenage boy brig mouthing I think. There is no way they would go anywhere near a child of any age.

Teenage boys like sex, adult men like sex, it's a simple as that. I do think it's pretty normal for a boy his age to be curious and interested in sex. I know my own 16 year old is more than a little interested in sex too. Just last week I was checking the history on my pc and found some porn sites on there. I have now put on a net nanny thing, so hopefully that will slow it down.

I know this sounds bad but I am going to say it anyway. I think I'd rather my son watching porn than out there sleeping with God know's who and risk getting some girl pregnant or worse.

[fionas]

I agree with Trish - I think it's normal for boys to be interested in sex, look at porn, try to sleep with their girlfriend and try to go to a brothel. But that doesn't mean that your sister should do nothing about it

[Nazela]

my selfish sister (shes just annoying me) finds it hillarious that he has gone to a brothel and paid $30 then came and told her about it.

I got peed coz, these kids are being emotionally used by both parents (if you stay with me i will buy/do this, ur mum/dad is bad , he/she will remarry then forget you etc), if it IS true he has confided in her about what he did that day (good or bad), then he catches her telling my mum bout it withing 15 mins. She is losing him and his trust.

I keep telling his brother and my sister to talk to him about it, explain and promise to take him to a brothel / club at age 16 or 18 if he can stop going there.

i told them porn is normal, hey my hubby use to look/watch them when he was married at 25...so its normal but im just alittle worried

[kirsty_lee]

Just IMO there is no way he scored at a brothel for 30 bucks... absolutely no way.. I know the prices of such establishments as im sure alot of people do so i think he's just full of bs...plus as i previously stated no way would he be let in without sufficiant id

[Ozziehoffy]

I think it's quite normal them looking at porn.. not that I think they're old enough. Trish, I have also found this in my history on the computer and ONLY ever after Joshua has been on the computer. Net nanny type of thing didn't work for me because it bans normal pages too

As for the brothel thing... hmmmm doesn't sound quite right to me either. I don't think it was right for him to be laughed at when he said it though, sounds like he's crying out for attention - just my opinion though.

[Nazela]

I definitely think its cry for an attention.

I also think my sister is lying abit. - theres alot of things shes saying that a kid or teenager never says to his mum. I don't know. My sister is a compulsive liar - this isnt the first insident. But the things being said its just too much and very disgusting.

Hubby has told me not to leave my girls at their place or near either of nephews - just in case.

She needs to see someone, but she thinks its not too bad plus she gets up tight when we say something.

now her kids are turning out to be like her - that sounds bad but its the truth.

The brothel thing doesnt sound right either - $30 i thought was cheap and the age factor.

Dont know if he could pay someone on the street (if that kind of thing still occurs )

[mrsmac]

It sounds like attention seeking behaviour (although from a book I read recently he may have got some "hand relief" for that money possibly)
Poor kid being mucked around by both parents, it sounds like its only going to get worse unfortunately.

[kirsty_lee]

LOL darl.. you could go to the filthiest, oldest, ugliest hooker even on the street and 30 bucks wouldnt get you anything.. they just wouldn't bother with it lol sounds like a whole bunch of hoohah