Ok I was just talking about this in another thread but thought you girls with teens might be the better ones to ask so here goes...

When do you think its ok for sleep over with boyfriend/girlfriends? As you can see I am not a mother off a teen yet but I was talking about this the other day with some mums and tjought it was intrusting that they all thought it was ok for there girls to have a boy stay the night at their house but when i asked if they would let their son's stay the night at a girls house they said no.. So someone has to give the mother of the DS or the mother of DD.. What do you think...

I know I hate the idea of letting my DD's staying over at a boys house but I also dont like the idea of my DS at a girls house, but do feel that if its going to happen I would prefur for it to happen at home where I know they are "safe"..

I dont really care about what age you think is right as everyone is different I would hope my kids boys and girls would wait but know this is not the norm so am hopeing they are atleast 16/17 yrs...

love to hear your thoughts....