My point Ryn is that girls can openly complain about it if it happens to them whereas boys cannot. Society assumes any sexual activity boys/men get up to is what they wanted and were up for, once they passed puberty. I'm know ALOT of teenage boys who have felt depressed, hurt or even suicidal because the girls they were dating have said or spread malicious things about their technique/equipment/stamina, or because they've been pushed ino situations where they weren't comfortable and had sex because they felt they had no choice. But they don't go on about it because society doesn't want to hear that. When a girl complains she gets a lot of sympathy, when a boy complains he gets laughed at or ignored.