The problem is Vicky that I haven't met him. He hasn't been around to our place and I don't think he will. She does have other friends who are in year 11 this year and I have met them and they seem to be nice kids so I guess I will have to trust her judgement. I did find a condom in her top bedside drawer though (looking for something else) and freaked out a little lol not at her but just to myself. At this point they seem to have contact only at school and via txting and email. Hope it stays this way. She does have a level head on her and being the eldest of 5 kids she knows how hard it is to raise children so I'll back off for now and see where it goes.