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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Gladstone
    169

    i know the feeling my soon to be 13 son got court with naked girls on his usb at school today and he got 2 day suspended
    sarah

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
    3,438

    Hi Sarah,
    Hopefully the suspension will have taught him a lesson. After DS's episode there has been no further problems. Peer pressure is a big thing also. Hope it all works out for you.

    Regards,
    Dianne

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Gladstone
    169

    thanks he knows he has done wrong i just hope he understands it is not right

    sarahxxx

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
    5,171

    I havent got any experience with children as yet but ...

    I don't have a problem with porn I think every now and again it's quite healthy, having said that I was in a long term relationship with a person that was addicted to it. As a result there was lots of mis-trust and resentment that eventually led to our relationship falling apart.
    He would sit up on the computer for hours at night, so i banned it and then of course he would lie to me about it, he even chose porn over me once (that I know of).
    I think porn is ok in moderation but the conversation about unrealistic views and what is and isnt healthy is definately neccesary from early on. I would hate for any one else to have to go through what we did and lose an otherwise wonderful relationship because of it... although I'm sure it does happen.

    my 2c