Bit dissapointed in the consellor too, the girls needs someone impartial, that she can trust.

Agree with everything already said, and yeah, what an icky situation. I deal with this sort of issue all the time at work, there is never an easy answer. Kids can be so mixed up, but so can the parents.
I have to try and work out what we can do to help the families in this situation, and it's really hard because everybody wants to get their side of the story across, and lots of the time, no one is really right or wrong.
YUCK.