Yep i have been asking a lot of questions and listening because i'm sure she's not used to someone just listening to her. What i find frustrating though is her answer to most things as in why she has done something or how she feels is "i don't know", and she laughs a lot, she thinks most of what she's done is pretty funny.

In regards to the sex thing, this worries me hugely, but i think her being around my boys (a toddler and a newborn) is enough of a reality check that she'll thinkg twice about it because she can see how hard it is. We've watched Juno and some other teen movies with these kinds of issues, its hard just bringing these things up though.

Thanks for your response