Any LTTTC'ers fell pregnant naturally the cycle after an mc?

[Maruschke]

Just curious... we cant fall pg naturally because of CM issues. But this pregnancy, as short as it was, I had an abundance of CM from about 12dpo until about 18dpo. So I'm just wondering if there is the slightest chance that we could conceive naturally this cycle, maybe the mc could cause the CM to remain? I'm really desperate here . I HATE the fact that my body is still bleeding as a constant reminder of our loss, its so much worse than getting AF after trying, and I just want to be pregnant again ASAP.

[Lily Dust]

Yes, 5 years and 11 lots of fertility treatment all unsuccessful I fell pregnant 1 year later naturally. Unfortunately it was an unviable pregnancy and after a D&C I was pregnant the next cycle with our almost 2 year old DD.

Maruschke, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Bleeding is such an awful reminder and incredibly unfair

[Maruschke]

I am so glad you finally got your (sticky) bub, and sorry for your loss too . LTTTC and miscarriage seems like a double blow and I'm stuck in a "woe is me" funk right now.

[Lily Dust]

Oh hun, that is completely understandable!! When it happened I felt like OMG its not bad enough I couldnt get pregnant in the first place but now I dont even know if I will get to be again! Its hard, its cruel and it effects every aspect of your life and soul. Be kind to yourself sweetheart, feel the way you need to feel and grieve for your loss. I do desparately hope you get your sticky bubba soon

[Maruschke]

You are so lovely, thank you . My friends IRL do not know how to react. My husband is not that upset, I told him that I had lost faith in my body to conceive and carry a baby and he thinks I have no reason to feel like that. Ugh men, they suck at times like this.

[Saffy]

maruschke sorry you are feeling like this, it sucks!
I'm feeling exactly the same- why me etc, no one else much understands IRl, you are right.
I have no idea about getting UTD after a loss as it has never happened to me, but ANYTHING can happen, many girls are testament on here to that, so heres hoping for a miracle for you xx

[Maruschke]

Saffy it's heartbreaking... I am so sorry you are going through this as well. Really there isn't much to say. It just sucks. And it sucks that it takes soooo long to have another crack at it.

[Elocin]

I told him that I had lost faith in my body to conceive and carry a baby and he thinks I have no reason to feel like that.

I had the same conversation with my DH after my m/c

I fell pg through an IVF stim cycle in April and lost the baby at about 6w and had a d&c in May. I fell pg again, naturally, in June. With no AF and no CM.

I am so, so sorry that you are going through this hun... cling to whatever you can to get you through

[Maruschke]

Nic & Lily that gives me hope

[Lily Dust]

Hold on to that hope, precious because that is what will get you over that finish line. You are being so brave and courageous, you just need to hold on tight and dont give up