Hello,

I couldn't have worded it better myself. It is true, it is the little things that you cling on to to get you through.

What are the self help books? Any authors you can name for me?

I used to use my mam as a sounding board but then since last summer she hasn't been well and so I think I really miss this too. My poor husband just never knows what to do or say though he tries sometimes.

Thank-you for the kind wishes and I sincerely send them back. Fingers crossed for some good luck soon . I can't remember what life was like before this burden and I'm sure you are the same.

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