's Kat,
Its a difficult time in your life and granted they didn't show you too much sympathy by telling you so early. Perhaps they thought the sooner you knew the easier it would be for you to deal with in time if that makes sense?

I have had some very insensative comments on all 3 of my losses, and there is nothing you can do about it, its just part of the lesson you learn as you deal with grief. Its easier said than done I personally found by reminding myself that the people who made these comments have not walked a day in my shoes. They do not know how all my losses have affected me, and they really don't care.

Men feel very different about loss to women, I believe we feel things much deeper because it happens to us (within us).

I think its good that you don't see them so frequently for their pregnancy to be right in your face all the time, especially while you are healing.

's hun be bentle with yourself, take the time you need, try not to let insensative comments harm you, people who have never experienced loss really have no clue to how dificult it can be to deal with.

Love Nae x