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thread: How do you handle this situation?

  1. #73
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    South Australia
    522

    Hi Leigh,

    Thanks for thinking of me. I did POAS this morning and it was another BFP, it was darker than the other one I did 2 days ago so feeling a little better about it, but still not confident enough to acknowledge that Im pg IYKWIM. I feel like if I do that I will get emotionally attached and if it ends badly Ill be so dissapointed...again. So im just waiting it out and trying not to think to far ahead. Im not sure if ill get a bt done yet or not, maybe ill go next week if everything seems to be ok. I havent decided yet. Ill def keep you posted though hun and im that I can celebrate soon.

    AFY - It must be so lovely to hear your bubba's hb everyday, must be very reassuring as well. When I first heard DS's hb I was told that I might be having a girl because it was fast, but he ended up just being a very active little boy Still....I have a strong feeling that your'e having a girl Strangely enough im usually right about these predictions

    Anyway hun, Ill let you know how I go...thanks for the prayers, keep them coming...can never have too many

    Issy

  2. #74
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Queensland
    1,176

    Hi Issy,

    OMG I am guessing AF showed up. I am soooo sorry hun I really thought this was going to be it for you. Are you ok? I guess you knew something wasn't quite right with the light BFP's. I had a chemical pregnancy the month before I fell pregnant with this bub. My tests were really light as well and I kind've knew it wouldn't turn out ok but then a month later I was pregnant. Go get the Maca!!! Are you going to go and see your FS to see if you can have any tests done or anything? I hope if you get tests done you will find out why this is happening!!!

    Once again hun I am so sorry and please know that I am here for you when ever you need to chat!!!

    Sending you lots of and good luck this month!

  3. #75
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    South Australia
    522

    Hi Leigh,

    Thankyou so much for thinking of me hun, I am totally ok with it all, I knew it wasnt going to be ok because my HCG levels were so low so I was expecting it go this way. Im sorry I havent replied until now, things have been hectic lately so I havent had the chance to write on here at all.

    Im also having the weirdest cycle ever!!!!! I think I may have ov just a week after the chem pg cause my bb's are absolutely KILLING me and Im only on CD 15. wtf?????? And I just had very light pink discharge which is even weirder???? My opp with FS is on the 24th of July so hopefully we can get this all sorted out and find a way to get me UTD and stay that way for 9 months . Ill be right! Just gotta be a little bit more patient and my time will come when its ready. I have absolute faith that I will get pg again soon, and Im ok with waiting if it means I end up with a healthy and happy pg in the end.

    How are you going by the way, have you had your scan yet? Did you find out what youre having? I cant wait to hear the news, I bet its a GIRL!

    Anyway hun, Im looking forward to hearing from you soon.

    for you hun

    Issy

  4. #76
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Queensland
    1,176

    Hi Issy,

    Glad to hear you are ok!!! Yes, your time is just around the corner & at least seeing your FS will help you sort out what the problem is. If it were me I would rather wait and have things sorted and finally carry a baby 9 months than to keep falling pregnant and losing them. Hopefully it will be something simple and you'll fall pregnant very quickly. for you!!!

    I had my scan this morning. All went well. We asked to find out the sex but the lady said she'd do all her measurements first then she'd look at the end. She said while doing the measurements she hadn't seen what the sex was and when she went to look at the end she couldn't get a very clear picture but she took a stab at it and said it looks like a girl. She wasn't sure though but she said she couldn't really see any boy bits. I was so happy when she said a girl coz that's what I secretly want is another DD. I hate not knowing for sure though coz I am dying to go out and buy clothes etc but don't want to buy all neutral stuff. With DD they were 99.9% sure she was a girl so I was certain on that one. Oh well guess I will find out for sure in Nov. I had my ob appointment this arv and they booked my caesar for the 6th of November so that's exciting to know a date.

    Better go and good luck with your FS. Keep me posted on how you are going. Who know's maybe you are already preg if you think you've O'd already. Wouldn't it be great if you were!!!

    Take care

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