I was 12 wks and had missed m/c almost five wks ago. Had d/c and body has been all over the place since (pain, bleeding etc.). Mind is ok,just want to get on with life a bit.

The OB said is OK to TTC again when I get my first period, which he said would be 4 wks after d/c.

I really want to try again as soon as possible but have been told is risky before first period. We really want a family and want to get on with our lives. I just feel that until we are actually TTC properly again that I can't fully put what has happene behind us, but on the other hand I am petrified of it happening again. We got pg easy last time and am scared that will take ages because it will screw with my cycle.

Basically I am just a nervous wreck!