Kiwisandra,

I had a blighted ovum not long ago (D&C last week), was not expecting it at all as I felt everything was going ok - although this was my first pg. (Actually we weren't even trying at the time I had only been off the pill for a few months)

I will be 38 this year, but I am not too worried that age is against me. I am keeping positive attitidue to it all. I spoke to a clairvoyant about me having a kids and she told me that I would lose a baby early in pg then have a healthy one shortly there afterwards. I dont usually believe in this sort of stuff but so far everthing has turned out right. (She told me this way b4 I even knew I was pg).

I felt this has helped me prepare to TTC as it IS going to work next time.

I know I have probabaly babbled and not answered your ?? but I just wanted to tell you my thoughts.

All the best with your TTC