Sorry to hear about your losses. *hugs*

I know exactly how you feel! Especially the "kind of wishing it would happen to someone else so they knew what it felt like"....and feeling guilty for feeling that!! It's normal I reckon and you are probably right, it's about being less lonely. M/C can be a very lonely place. It is sooo hard being around other pg women as well.

I have also had 1 blighted ovum at 8 wks, an early m/c at 5 wks and a late m/c at 19 wks.But I have also gone on to have to beautiful boys so please know there is light at the end of the tunnel

Amout the in-laws: we didn't tell ours until 7 mths pg!!! Definately made coping easier for me that way anyway.

Best of luck with your not 'not' trying...hope it all goes smoother for you from now on.