Just a vent...

[water_lily80]

Sorry to hear about your losses. *hugs*

I know exactly how you feel! Especially the "kind of wishing it would happen to someone else so they knew what it felt like"....and feeling guilty for feeling that!! It's normal I reckon and you are probably right, it's about being less lonely. M/C can be a very lonely place. It is sooo hard being around other pg women as well.

I have also had 1 blighted ovum at 8 wks, an early m/c at 5 wks and a late m/c at 19 wks.But I have also gone on to have to beautiful boys so please know there is light at the end of the tunnel

Amout the in-laws: we didn't tell ours until 7 mths pg!!! Definately made coping easier for me that way anyway.

Best of luck with your not 'not' trying...hope it all goes smoother for you from now on.

[bec83]

Thanks WaterLilly... That whole light at the end fo the tunnel is so important! As absolutely ridiculous as it is, sometimes you just feel like you're the only person to go thru it, just because nobody else in your family or friends have been thru it.
I know DH is forever optimistic about our next pregnancy, and I just go thru phases really. Some days i really can see us with our baby, other days i cant imagine it happening at all. I can imagine finding out we're pregnant, and can imagine the next D&C - not very hopeful I know!
3rd time's the charm, right?! Hahaha!

[MistyFying]

Bec it's so hard, isn't it. for you.