Thank you Bec... you are right that it never goes away but it does get easier with time... I want to try again and I know I will but am so scared. We got the results of the genetic testing of the fetus last week and I have been pinning alot of hope that the tests would lead to some answers but all he could tell us was that it was chromosomal abnormalities and that he thought we'd be best to try our luck again. None of that gives me any comfort as I'm worried that there could be something wrong with me or my husband which would make it happen again...It all seems too co-incidental (ie two occur twice and both at the same stage ie 10 weeks) to just be random chromosomal problems.

Nevertheless we'll battle on and get back on that rollercoaster ride...hopefully this time the cards will fall differently for us....



Best wishes and huge thank you for your support.