Hi Megsmum,

Thanks for your reply and the welcome! It's so nice to be able to finally talk to others who are going through the same thing (although I am very sad for them) . My friends and family are great but my DH and I struggle a little sometimes as no-one we know is going through what we are (thankfully as I wouldn't wish this on anyone!).

I haven't been to a FS yet, going back to my GP next month as he wanted us to try for 12 months after the m/c to see if it happened naturally. He didn't think it would be a problem since it happened so quickly the first time.

I am going to insist on all the tests, if nothing more to put our minds at ease. I am cycle tracking and have been for the last couple of months (with BBT at fertilityfriend.com). Last month we did everything right (well according to my temps we did) and our chances were 'high' but still AF made an appearance - damn it!

So sorry to hear about your m/c, hoping your TWW ends with a ! I have my fingers crossed for you.

I guess we just have to keep on trying and remain positive however hard that may be sometimes. Is it just me or are there more pregnant women in the world after you suffer a m/c? Not that I am not happy for them, it just another reminder of what my DH and I want so much but don't have. Although I always remind myself that their journey may not have been an easy one either.

Anyway that's enough whinging from me for one night.

Best of luck (isn't the TWW the longest 2 weeks ever?).

Mel