No worries Mel, I know what it is like unfortunately. My DH and I struggled very much after our m/c Plenty of people knew, but unless they have been there no one really understands.

The GP sounds like a good start, they will be able to do some basic tests like bloods on you and an SA on your DH. It will be a good thing to set your mind at ease.

Oh yes, I'm sure you are right about more pg women being around after a m/c! They are everywhere! It is a horrible reminder, and I just avoid situations where there are pg women and babies if I feel that I can't handle it. You have to do what is best for you.

Thanks for the good luck, I hope this is the one too!