My heart goes out to you sweety. I was pregnant last August and went for my 12 week scan in November all excited and we were told there was no heartbeat and the baby had passed at 8weeks and was still inside of me...
I had to have a d/c and then followed by a second one due to remaining products. We still have not conceived and are our trying our damndest.. I am in surgery again on Tuesday with suspected endometriosis... THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN TO YOU HUN! WE ARE JUST UNFORTUNATE!

It is the worst place to be and please please take your time getting yourself to a place where you feel at least comfortable to continue. I beg of you not to rush back into work and allow people to disregard what is happening to you, as its not just a physical thing, it is incredibly emotional and there are going to be times where you feel unable to do the simplist of things and it is not wise to rush back to 'normal' life.

A lot of the girls here have been through similar things. We are all here to support you and whenever you feel you need a shoulder, a hug, whatever it is... we are here. I am on MSN too if you ever need to discuss it hun, or even not talk about it and talk over something else to distract you. little_earth@hotmail.com is my address hunny... I am here for you.

Also, without sounding morbid, you may wish to try and think of way to mark what has happened, as all too often people feel like they have nothing to remember things by... Personally my husband and I bought a helium balloon and took it to the beach and had a little ceremony and let it go... it did help a lot. Some people buy trees to plant, balloons to let go, flowers to let petals fly from.. whatever it is hunny, do it if it helps.

I truly am devastated for you, its the most horrid thing I have ever been through and it has knocked me by six and I can tell you in all honesty, things have never been the same since. However, I am still here and I am still living in hope.

Huge hugs

Rach
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