New here... :(

[M22]

hey tiff,

sweetie maybe just ask him- it probab doesnt matter when and you may still have the same issues now or if you try later- on the other hand YOU may NOT have them at all

hugs sometimes the burdan on our hubby is so great andthey just need more time!!

your not selfish.

PS- i foudn you post a little difficult to read i think because of the color??

[Tiffmommy]

I agreee on the color! I read it after I posted it and realised not to use that color again! My husband works a full time job (with lots of unpaid over time hours) and a part time job so I can stay at home with our daughter. I think he just likes the part time job for fun since it's at a bait shop... He is so tired and stressed when he gets home the last thing I want to do is put more on the plate. I think I am goingto wait till he has a weekend off to relax and then talk. Tiff

[Ahurani]

Oh honey I'm sorry you had to go through that

If I were you I wouldnt push the subject for now, because it could work against you

[M22]

yeah maybe 2 weekends give him one to totally chill out and then appraoch him, maybe say you know / understand the pressure he is under and he is a great daddy etc, you know men, pride them up andthey'll do anything

LOL

[mummy of many]

Tiff,sorry to hear what you have been through,I think maybe you might have to give your hubby a bit more time before dicussing ttc,he probably feels very pressured & also he`s surely worried about our Economic times too,Hugs hun.

I hope you enjoy BB.