Well, I had my m/c jan 19, 2009. Two months ago today (I havent been to bed yet so it's still today for me) I had a D&C feb 11,2009. I have been on another site since my loss and I love the women, but I feel like I just need... I dont know??? Anyway, I have this desire for another baby. I dont think my husband is ready to try again. We still have another cycle to wait from the time my dr gave me... But when we got pregnant we werent trying and I had NO idea I was pregnant until I lost it... I kinda thought I was for like a week, and finally took THREE tests because they were so light I didnt belive it! My husband is worried about money and that I got pre-eclampsia with our daughter and was really sick. I knew that I wanted at least one more (I'm sorry if I sound selfish) when I was still in the hospital. I guess what I'm getting at is, does anyone have advise on talking to my husband about ttc again?? Thank you for listening! Tiffany