Welcome, Vicky.

I'm so sorry to hear of your recent loss. You will definitely find a safe place in the TTC after mc or loss thread as Clairesmummy suggested. Join us there and may we all be the support and comfort you need to get you through!

To answer your question, there are so many pieces of advice I could give you, but I'll keep it simple. Chart your cycle. Join fertility friend (google it) and I reccomend OPKs to pinpoint your fertile time. In the TTC after mc thread you will meet Reet, who I'm sure will have some good advice for you regarding your DH being away. Her DH also travels for work, so I'm sure you could get some real understanding from her. I know there are more but my memory is faulty at best........

(Just had to give you a little plug there, Reet... mwah! xoxo)

Once again, welcome, and I hope you get your BFP quickly.