Heya munchy - yes weight is an issue - it can also be a symptom of another issue - i have PCOS and have high insulon resistance which leads me on a vicious cycle of weight gain - causing hormone changes -causing infertility- causing weight gain- i lost 10kgs before my last pregnancy so am thinking i willhave to do the same again, also feeling better about yourself will also help you to stress less about the non concieving. Its cliched but not thinnking about it does help - we tried for over a year and the month i gave up - decided to not temp check or worry about when we bd'd i fell pg. I have over 25kgs to loose before i get to a "healthy weight" but i amnot thinking of the big picture. Start little - my first goal was to get under 100kg and i managed that - have stayed there for a bit now ready for my next goal - weigh less that DH - so am working on that. Don't kick yourself if you fall off the wagon - just start again tomorrow- even if you start again everyday - and talk tosomeone - that what the girls on here a fabulous for - big hugs and hang in the chickadee -so many of us are there with you or have been there - many many times...