munchy: I was surprised to hear that Ovulex is made in America--that's where I live! Actually, I think a lot of docs are still very ignorant about herbs and what they can do. But every once in awhile you find one who's quite savvy. And yes, I might try Ovulex some time. I just like hearing what other women use and how it works for them.
btw, when you said about buying your son a bunch of new toys after your loss, I totally understood. Obstetric loss makes you appreciate more what you already have.

sofy: I can understand your boredom. But you know it's for a good cause. After the cerclage, will you be allowed to resume your normal activities?

mummy2chloe: I started taking the Optivite a week and a half into this cycle, so it's too early to tell how it's working. It's supposed to be especially good for women who have short luteal phases, and I've only had two days of elevated temps so far (you know--elevated temps after you ovulate should last 14 days then AF starts). My other issue is my mucus drying up 5 days before my temp goes up, so I seem to be very out of sync. On the other hand, I'm only taking one Optivite a day (recommended dose is 2-6/day) because I wanted to see if I had any weird reactions to it--I'm also on synthroid for my thyroid. When AF starts I will up the dose to 2 a day. No, it doesn't have any herbs, just loads of vitamins and minerals and nutrients.
btw, I know how frustrating the whole weight loss roller coaster can be. Good luck with it all, but remember, people can love you just the way you are (to quote Mr. Rogers) even if your body isn't the "perfect" weight!!!