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tm- my work dont know that i am pregnant yet not going to tell them for a good while might wait till my 12 week scan or 16 weeks one i feel loads better now still have a cough and a little sore throat bu alot better than what i was which is good as i am off to work in a min.

Mummy2chloe

i cant believe you have never seen snow before that is so strange i just asumed that everyone has seen it bless you but it is a pain like you said we are ment to be having snow hear 2morrow we always do in jan or feb time. about the wedding i think you should ask them to pay this is what i done my bridesmaids bought there own dresses and shoes and payed for there hair the men payed for there own suites i was gonna get people to pay for there own meal as well but i didnt need to in the end and my friends mu m decorated the whole room as a present to me it looked beauitiful and my mum in law made the cake but she does do that for a living. i think its worth doing especially if it means you can have another go at the ivf something that means everything to you i think you should go for it its gonna save you so much money also i borrowed a car of a friend there is so many things you could save on just have a good think hope it goes well let me no what you decide honey.

munchy xxx

oh my god munchy

you have just made me the happiest person right now, i had started a thread in the wedding section and told the girls the same thing and asked for there opinions and most of them think its not a good idea to ask them to pay for the meals:cry: i was about to start thinking about cancelling cos i thought if there are so many people that didnt like the idea then how will my guests feel and i dont want them to think i am cheap iukwim

but after reading your post and hearing about all the stuff you have done, that has made me feel better:D

i was thinking that they could pay for there meal i will pay for drinks, my girls are paying for there dresses and my gift to them i will pay for there hair and make up, the boys will be paying for theres ( renting them) i am borrowing flower girls dress, i am getting a plane cake from a cake shop and putting black ribbon on the bottom of the 3 layers, our wedding cars are free as there friends of ours that have the same sort of car as ours ( clubsports) we are hoping to get the flowers done at mates rates as my sister knows the lady at the flower shop, but yeah there just some of my plans, i will get on here when i have more time and tell you all about it, but you have no idea how happy you have made me right now, i feel alot better about asking them to pay for there meals now

thanks hun

so happy that your feeling better sweetie

Oh Honey

i am so glad i have helped at the end of the day its about you an DP showing how much you love each other not about al the fancy stuff the men rented there suits as well oh and my flowers i bought mine but my DH nan made the bridesmaid ones i think if you get people to help in anyway they will be happy to i am sure and that way hopefully you will have a little bub with the money you have saved it will all be worth it ah but yeh when you get time i want to no all about your plans i love wedding things we should swap email address so we can chat through that. anyway first day back at work really dont want to be hear but if all goes well i will be taking a yr maternaity leave so i will just keep thinking of that. glad your feeling better about the wedding try not stress yourself out also how is chloe is she on the mend.

Munchy xxx

mummy2chloe: actually, I like snow. I wish we'd have some, instead of all this cold rain. But it only snowed a couple times this season and mostly flurries that didn't stick. The one time we got 3 inches, but it melted the next day. The kids were very sad.

munchy: glad you're feeling better.

Hi TM

thanks! i am feeling even better today my voice has fully returned which is good the only thing i have now is a little cough and have bags more energy which is nice i dont feel like i am been a slob around the house my morning sickness is starting to kick in although its not in the morning its at any time of the day so how are things with you good i hope oh it started snowing hear today but not really sticking yet but we have more to come so the weather said so looks like we might me making snow men yeppeeee. anyway better go hubby just come back with a yummy burger for me to eat take care.

munchy xxx

hey munchy

so happy to hear you feeling better, wow SNOW how cool is that, your so lucky to live where it snows.

if you want pm me your email address so we can chat about wedding stuff, and i can email you some photos of dresses and things like that??

cant wait i am excited, i was up until 2 am last night looking at things on the net,
i found this really gorgeous silver rose ring box for my little page boy to hold, but the company wrote back to me this morning and told me that there US shipping only, so that means i cant get it which i think stinks, but anyway hopefully i will be able to find it somewhere else

ok cant wait to hear from you

take care

ok i just pm you munchy, thought i might aswell send you my email address while i am on hear, cant wait to talk to you

Hello hun i just pm you and gave you my email how good is that we can send pics to each other and that would love to see all the pics of wedding stuff i am so excited anyway as i said in the pm i am off to bed so tired speak soon chicken xxx

So did you get to make that snowman?

Hi TM

no i didnt get to make any snowmen hopefuly soon though as it is just getting colder and colder it did snow just not enough to stick harvey loves the snow he keeps asking me when it will snow i think they dont understand the weather sometimes bless him. how are you did you have a nice weekend i went to visit family it was so good to see them all again i think my nan loved having us all there anyway i am off to have a nice bath i have my 7 week scan 2morrow i am excited and nervous just want everything to be ok.

munchy xxx

I'll be crossing fingers, praying and everything else for you with your scan! I just got AF, but it's okay and I've decided to get serious this month about TTC.
But on the other hand, the Optivite seemed to get my luteal phase just the right length. I'm taking three a day. So here's hoping!

hey munchy, just checking in to see how the scan went, i hope its all good happy gooey news!!

hey munchy

hope your scan went well today, been thinking about you all day

cant wait to hear from ya sweet

take care

Hello girls

thanks for your messages scan went well i am 7 weeks and 2 days they saw a tiny sack and a little heartbeat which is good he did worry me at first as he asked if i had any pain or bleeding but in the end i think it was just a routine question i have my other scan on the 6th of march and a 16 week one on the 14 of april so fngers crossed i make it that far i feel more positive about it today i just want this month to hurry up i dont like to wish my life away but just this month so i no i will be at the safe stage.

Tm good luck with the trying TTC this month i have my fingers crossed that this will be your month honey get riding that man ha ha.

thanks again girls

love munchy xxx

So glad about your scan. And BTW, you're so funny!

Thanks tm hows it going with the TTC i havent been on here for a while have so much to catch up on hope its going well still have everything crossed for you honey i am good with the pregnancy just want to eat and sleep all the time at the min trying to not eat naughty stuff and i tend to have an hour nap around 4 in the afternoon when hubby gets back from work, but the nap really does help anyway hope you are good i am off to bed now cant wait to snuggle up in be covers and go slepp sweet dreams.

love me xxx

Actually, life $ucks right now because my FIL just died this morning of cancer. Long story short, he had prostate CA a few years ago, mostly beat it, then last november found out it was in his bones. Got a couple doses of chemo, then had a crisis last week, we were told he only had a few days left.

On the other hand, the family was able to gather around and say thier last goodbyes.

I'm a little stunned sometimes, and sad at others.

tm,

so so sorry to you and your dh about the passing of your FIL:hug:

please take care of yourself and if you ever need to talk we are always

here for you.

Thanks. We're coping, the funeral will be Saturday. Just taking one day at a time.