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hey munchy

sorry to hear that lewis failed his test:( you poor buggers, it just doesnt seem fair does it? is he able to re-sit the test again? or is there anything else he can do to try and fix it??

i dont know wether i should be saying sorry about your sister being pregnant or congrats on being an aunty again?? i know just to well what it is like for a sister to fall pregnant whilst ttc, it is very heart breaking but in a different way iukwim, its like you are angry that its not you and you wish that it was you that the family were happy for? you know what i mean? i was happy that she was pregnant dont get me wrong, but god damn it hurt and the worst part was that the baby was not planned and they definantly didnt want to have another child, but they arent the sort of people to get rid of it or anything, her youngest child was 11 yrs old so there was no plans to have another one, but that was 3 yrs ago and she couldnt be any happier, and neither could i, i love my little nephew like theres no tomorrow, but yeah it was pretty hard to see her belly growing and all the family would do was talk about it, it was pretty hard at the time but it all good now.

i am very glad that your feeling better with in yourself, it sounds like your anti depressants are doing there job, with any luck with you feeling better it might be the confidence your body needs to help you fall pregnant? are you still on the ovulex?? do you really think there doing anything??

hows harvey going??

better get going, the tennis is on i love the australian open

take care

Mummy2chloe

so nice to hear from you glad eveything is ok with you you are so right i am so happy for my sister and like your sister my sister didnt actually want anymore children she fell pregnant just after i lost brooklyn which was hard and she was cinsidering termination but she decided to keep it but M/C at 13 weeks and now she has fallen again with the same partner but she is happy about it and so am i just feel gutted that its not me as well i am extreamly happy about being an auntie though and i just hope she asks me to be her birthing partner as i was for her first baby but not her secound i no my sister feels for me and i told her how it did make me feel jealous and how that i did cry but i said its nothing against her i love her and want the best for her i just wish it was happening for me as well and she totally understands which is nice. Harvey is fine starting to get a bit more of an attitude he seems like a teenager already at times iykwim starting to answer back i have just enroled him into football on sat mornings so cant wait for him to start that he will start next sat he will love it i want him to get into a sport as i am not sprty but his dad is do you know what he said tome the other morming i came into the kitchen and he looked at my belly and said your a bit fat ant you mummy i couldnt believe my ears i just said yo him that e shouldnt say thatto people as it can upset them what are kids like ah they certainly speak the truth hows chloe getting on?

Munchy xxx

ooohh yes children can be very lovely cant they ( not)
chloe went through a stage where she was back chatting and at times would say, that i have a big bum or my belly is huge and i would tell her that it was not nice to say things like that about people as it can hurt there feelings lol look at what we have to look forward to in the coming teenage years :rolleyes:

everyone here is fine, dp is back at work he will be home thursday night and i got myself a job at woolworths just on checkouts, plus i might have a job at another shop as well, hopefully will find out about that one sometime this week. we are planning on getting married on my birthday this yr ( 20th december) so the jobs will help pay for the wedding. as far as ttc well my fertility doc bl**dy retired over christmas so he has refered me to another fertility doctor, so i have to make appoinment with him soon and just see where to go from here, feel a little strange not knowing whats going on, i dont like to sit here for to long watching all of these missed months go by knowing that we could be trying but we arent. but yeah just got to get a few things sorted out first and then i will make an appointment with my new fs, i feel a little bad knowing that i am about to spend all this money on a wedding when it could give us a round of ivf, oh well not to worry.

take care

munchy and mummy2chloe:
Doesn't the Universe just seem so random sometimes? This is why the philosophers through the ages went around and around with the question of why some people suffer and others don't...
I think it's hard to explain the ambivalence of TTC and seeing other people get preg--how you can be in pain but happy for them at the same time. Unless you've lived through it, it can't be explained.
But on a lighter note, I hope Harvey enjoys football. My 11 year old son plays on his school's basketball team, we're right in the middle of the season. But he really likes it and all the boys in his class (it's a small school) are on the team, so it's a real camaradarie builder.
and mummy@chloe, I know what you mean about little kids saying insensitive remarks. And you know they don't mean it, because they don't think any less of a person who is different, or whatever. They're just innocently curious. Then we have to teach them to keep their curiosity to themselves LOL! Good luck with the wedding planning.

Mummy2chloe

i am dreading the teenage yrs i have a feeling girls could be worse with there hormones and worrying about there boyfriends etc but not sure hope harvey isnt to bad my sister was a terrible teenager where i wasnt as bad but my dh was a good one seems weird to think of him as a teenager when he is still my baby always will be sometimes i will say oh baby what you done if he huts himself and he turns and says im not a baby bless him obviously i say it as a phrase but he dont no that. so planning wedding it is hard work but fun i love planning things so i enjoyed doing mine so winter wedding how lovely i always wanted to get married near christmas when it was frezing and snowing and wear a dress with deep red in it i got married on valentines day so was still cold had ivory dress with deep red rosses going around my chest was beautiful well make sure you dont work yourself to hard my mum works at woolworths but she works in the canteen bit dishing out the food and that in the cafe but she is looking for another job now as she wants something that pays a bit more cos she wants to move out my aunties and get her own place. well i hope you get the fetality thing going again lewis done his sperm test this morning so will hopefully gt results at the end of the week he says he has a feeling there is something wrong with him but i just think its me well hopefully not to long to wait and then i have my hospital appointment next week a feel like at least things are starting to move forward anyway i have to go do some work i really cant be bothered i am due af this week and just feel really tired so think it is on its way take care honey

Munchy xxx

hey munchy

i agree not matter what they will always be our babies lol

best of luck with lewis sperm test, with any luck things will come back good, let me know how you go with it ok.

I am going to look at wedding dresses next week with chloe, just going to be me and her for the day, thought it would be a nice mother and daughter day out, i know she is going to love it as she is soooo excited about it. our wedding is going to be in summer which is a bugger as chrissy time in australia is usually like really really hot, but it still should be nice, we wont be getting married till late in the afternoon, as it will be far to hot to get married any earlier.

i worked today 10hrs standing shorely does take it out of you hey?? i am still waiting to find out about the other job i applied for, i thought i might have herd something by now as its been a week today, not to worry hopefully i will find out soon.

anyway honey take care and will talk to you later

love Penny
dp is due to come home tomorrow night, but where he is working they are having lots of rain and is flooding so with any luck he might be home late tonight or tomorrow afternoon sometime.

Hello hun

this is my first message from my laptop i am just about to take harvey to school as it is only 8.20 in the morning over hear and thought i would pop on hear it sounds really hot over where you are our summer last year was full of rain and floods typical british weather although i dont like the heat myself i prefer a sunny day but cold if that makes sence. sounds like you will have a lovely mother and daughter day choosing dresses chloe will love it i bet you will have a fantastic wedding day i am excited for you. i cant believe you were on your feet for that long i couldnt do it for that long i think i would callapse ha ha i think i am late on my af i was working it out last night and i came on the 12th of dec and if my cycles are 32 days it means i am about 4 days late but like last month i was 11 days late so probably nothing i just thought it would be so good if me and my sister were pregnant together i would love that so much as there would only be a few days between our babys as she came on her period on the 11th of dec. anyway i had better go take harvey to school and let the dog in from garden hope DH gets to come home early and buy the way nice to finally no your name we have talked for so long and never new each others name take car speak soon chicken.

Claire xxx

Hello girls

i cant believe it i got a :bfp: this morning couldnt believe my eyes me and my sister will be due around the same time i just feel like it is to good to be true keep worrying that something will go wrong with 1 of us i really hope it dont as she has had 2 M/C and i lost brooklyn just hoping this is our yr of health and happiness. its early days for me just hope everything is fine. i just hope its all you girls turn next.

Munchy xxx

OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH my god munchy

i am in tears, honey i am soooooooooooo happy for you:dance: i cant believe it

my darling you deserve every second of this, i cant believe it my god i am so happy, these damn tears wont stop rolling down my face, who would of ever thought, 9 pages of this thread you and i have been going for and you have finally got a gorgeous bfp, wow i am sooo proud of you:clap:

how exciting you and your sister are preggers together, how awesome is that:D

now no stressing ok, just enjoy what you have just made, and thats a little bubba
rest up and take it easy

wow honey congrats

take care

now please dont go off and desert me, can you still stick around and talk to me?? hopefully i will be able to join you one day??

oh honey of course i wont desert you i will keep you updated with everything all the time as long as you dont mind thanks for being happy for me but i really cant help but worry already i think its only natural its still sinking in the worst thing is i am going to the zoo in a little while with the dreaded inlaws but def wont be saying anything i phoned my sister as soon as i found out and my mum and dad woke them all up they all thought something was wrong as it was 6 in the morning i just feel like its to good to be true me and my sister preggers together i have always wished to be pregnant with a friend or family member i just cant wait till i no everything is ok its weird how the docs started to investigate and then i find out i am pregers hope you dont mind me talking about it i just cant wait till you tell me that you are anyway better go gotta blow dry my hair and iron my clothes and make a picnic spea soon honey.

Munchy xxx

:happyforyou::happyforyou::happyforyou::happyforyo u:

WAHOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am soooo happy for you munchy!!!!!!! and for your sister too!! Yay!!!! Take care!! I wish you both all the best for a happy and healthy pregnancy!!! Wahoooooo!!!!

Luv StarBright xoxo

Yayyy! I'll be praying for you and keep in touch so we know how you're doing!

hello how is everyone i am really poorly have had a viral infection for a week now and its not getting any better i have been doctors twice as i thought i might have tonsiliters but they said i havent my voice has almost gone which lewis is happy about ha ha it means he gets some piece and quite and anything i eat just goes straight through me i have been off work but will have to go back 2morrow other wise i will need a doctors note all i want to do is sleep not sure if thats cos of not been well or being pregnant. i still cant really believe it i feel like its not really happening to me i just thought it would never happen again for me i have my first early scan at 7 weeks on monday but its at about 4 in the afternoon i just hope that everything is ok i still keep paniking that i will m/c i keep going to the toilet or any little niggly pain i will ring my sister i just want this so bad and dont want it to be taken away from me does that make sense sorry to go on i feel bad messaging you girls but i feel i can talk to you guys hope you dont mind. i am going to take my dog for a walk round the lake in a min with my friend and her dog get some fresh air to wake myself up a bit hope you are all good.

mummy2chloe
did you go looking for dresses with chloe if so how did you get on i bet you both enjoyed it.

Munchy xxx

hey munchy

really sorry to hear that you havent been feeling well, hope you get better soon
please take it easy and try and relax ( i know easier said then done)
best of luck for your ultrasound, please let me know how you go ok cos i will be thinking about you.

Chloe started grade 1 yesterday, she went so well she didnt even cry ( mind you i did) i was so proud of her. but she is home today with diahorrea (sp?) so i couldnt exactly send her to school pooing all day, plus she was having lots of pains in the belly, so i rang the school and they said that it would be best if she stayed home anyway just incase its a bug and she passes it on to the other kids, poor little thing, she was crying as she really wanted to go back today but with any luck she will be better tomorrow so she can go.

we didnt end up going dress shopping as in central QLD (were i live) we are having floods so we thought it might be best to wait and do it another time, not to worry we have been buying some bridal books and been looking at dresses in them.

anyway better get back to chloe ( poor little thing) hope your feeling better soon darl

take care

mummy2chloe

oh poor chloe hope she feels better soon and that she is back to school i bet you were the proudest mummy there ah they just grow up so quick dont they harvey wanted to ride his bike to school today for the first time and you could tell he was so proud of himself and where the children started linning up before going in he went and sat on his bike as if to say this is mine bless him. i am going to take him to get his hair cut after school i was ment to do it the other day but didnt get round to it so i will try my hardest to take him today i go back to work 2morrow after having a week off i think i needed it though my voice is starting to come back and i feel i have bags of energy again which is good as all week i have just slept and sat on sofa but today i have cleaned house had a nice bath with my music playing and done my make up which i havent done for so long. sorry to hear about the floods hopefully you eill be shopping soon we are ment to be having snow at the end of the week although today its lovely and sunny anyway i had better go gotta blow dry hair and pick harvey up from school i will keep you posted on scan i just feel bad talking about it when i no you girls deserve it so much as well hugs to chloe.

Munchy xxx

I'm so sorry you feel so sick. does your work know you're preg yet? I'm praying really hard for you. Hope you get past this nasty bug quickly!

mummy2chloe: I keep forgetting you guys start school around this time! It's fully winter here in Pennsylvania--windy and very cold. But no snow.

hey munchy and tempus moriendi

happy to hear that you have some energy back munchy, little harvey sounds so cute. hope tomorrow will be easy for you being back at work.

tm sounds very very cold where you are, i have never ever seen snow before, you are so lucky ( bet you dont think that though, i bet snow would be a pain in the bum to drive in, scary stuff)

ok girls i need you help, we have bought our wedding forward by 6 weeks, its now going to be the 1st of november, but i have been feeling very guilty lately as i keep thinking that the money that i am going to be spending on our wedding could be used for ivf, so this is where i need your opinion. do you think its rude of me to ask our guests to pay for there own meal?? i will pay for the bar so they wont have to worry about buying drinks or anything, but if i get them to pay for there food it will save me anywhere between $2000 - $3000 and then that money can go towards my ivf?? so do you think that this would be ok?? as i wont be having a wishing well or getting presents, this would be our present from them if they buy there own meals???

ok be honest let me know what you think??

i have been to 2 weddings now where we had to pay for our own meals, and i didnt mind, but i know some of my guests might not think the same way ( there old and like tradition)

ok cant wait to hear from you

take care

I know I dont know you at all haha but I just wanted to give my 2 cents. I think if you make it clear WHAT the money will be going to that nobody will complain. I would say it would be no different than asking for cash as a present, which should be perfectly reasonable if there is a valid reason to ask for cash such as the couple bought a home and need to do renovations...or...IVF!! I'm sure you will have no problem :)