The father of my angels and DS was so against having children he wanted to get the snip but when we fell pregnant he was as excited (if not more) as I was and when we lost the first one he was there for me in every way he could be, he even waited months without DTD because I just couldn't do it again yet and now we have our boy he loves him to death. Turns out he was afraid that he would be like his own Father and that he never had a good male role model in his life.