teme I took that attitude after going to a support group after the loss
I was listening to one women who was saying how her loss affected the rest of her life she was pregnant again and was not enjoying her pregnancy due to the prior loss I then decided that I was not going to let that happen to me

although I think if something was to go wrong again it would be a whole different matter

when we first got pregnant with the ectopic it was the first month we had been using OPK and we got a BFP
this month we had also been using the same kits and same method so I decided that I was going for a BFP this time also just hope I am right figures crossed for 15th May

best of luck for you also