Hi Rido,

Sorry to hear your news. You have definately come to the right place for comfort and support, that sometimes others of us find trouble finding else where.

I have had 2 MCs (one month after the other). One at 5.5 weeks and one at 4.5 weeks. My GP told me both times to wait at least one cycle. I wasn't happy with that answer, as I too am quite impatient, so I asked him to refer me to a fertility specialist. This dr told me there was no physical reason to wait. However, I didn't have a D&C, so I'm not sure what the deal is.

I noticed you took 10 months to conceive. Were you charting your temp and cervical mucus? If not, this can be very helpful at pinpointing your time of ovulation. Also using OPK's can be very helpful. Of course they are no guarantee, but are definately more of a help than random BDing.

I would like to suggest you join the forum "TTC after MC or loss", if you have not done so already. There are a great group of very supportive girls there from all ages and from all over (America, UK, Aus).

I hope you conceive again shortly.

Take care,
Joey