Hi Charb,
I lost my baby at 8wks after an ectopic preg. I too lost a tube, and I spent approx 6-8 weeks at home recovering from major surgery after nearly losing my life at the same time. I know that at the moment it is hard to feel confident about trying again, my fiancee and I have only started ttc in the last 6 weeks. I didn't have any 'tests' done as such, just regular check-ups with the dr, and I too have been told that all seems well 'down there'. If you need a shoulder, msg me I will try to share as much as I can if it means it will help make your recovery a little easier.
Take it easy, positive thinking works better than we think
Clare.