Hi,

I suffered a silent miscarriage (with my first baby) just over a month ago and had to have a d and c... It was all very upsetting, especially that I got to twelve weeks and had no idea that I had lost the baby. I took some time off and tried to recover with the help of my lovely husband. Now, we have just found out that we are pregnant again!!! I'm so happy to be pregnant again, but I'm so scared of going through that hell again.... I was hoping for some advise, because i'm just trying to not think about this pregnancy too much until the first trimester is over.... Any wise words from you wonderful women????

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