Hi Aprel,

I have just had the same experience as you, and am still trying to come to terms with it, don't know when I want to start trying again - one thing I have decided though, is that if/when I do get pregnant again, I will have an earlier scan as well as the 12 week one just to be sure, even if I have to pay for it at a private clinic...maybe at 8-10 weeks. I could not go through the uncertainty again.
I had a scan to determine date in the beginning, and everything was fine, and then it had died between then and when I had my 12 week scan, which was a shock. No one tells you that is a possibility if you have no symptoms, it is all about genetic faults etc. in the books. I guess the only good thing is that we didn't have to go through the choice of whether to have an abortion or not, but that nature took care of it itself.
Good luck with your pregnancy, hope you don't worry too much.