hi nova, sorry about your loss. my story was just the same as yours. got married. conceived 2 weeks later & had missed miscarriage at 6 wks 6 days, & found out at nearly 11 wks. d&c on 19 april. been trying since then. but anyways, i tried opks, dont think they work for me. plus they cost so much! i bought some bulk on ebay but they didnt work i dont think. could work for you? try going onto fertilityfriend.com, buy a bbt thermometer & start charting, also check your cervix too... good luck!