Hi ladies. It's so long since I've come on here..I'm not sure why. DH and I stopped TTC while I am in the process of losing weight. Recently I accidently fell pregnant, and didn't realise until AF came on really lightly and lasted for about 3 weeks. The Dr sent me for blood tests, two days apart, and I had a very low HCG count which was going down, so basically, I had another very early term m/c. This makes five.

Even though we weren't actually trying, I still feel betrayed. My body rejects every baby I fall pregnant with. Tests I've had have all come up with no reason for the losses. I need to lose about 50kg, which I know is a lot..but I'm wondering if it's possible that that's the sole reason for the losses. I know being overweight increases the chance of miscarriage..but I've had five now....I feel like I'm losing hope.

My plan is to get near my goal weight, and see a naturopath recommended to me by a midwife I know..and start trying again. Does anyone have any experiences they can share in regards to weight loss leading to healthy pregnancies, or hints? I'm starting to feel honestly, for the first time, that I will never have a child.

Lisa xx