Thanks so much for the replies ladies

It does help to hear about ladies who've gone on to have successful pregnancies after a series of losses, and others that are still trying and having hope.

I haven't seen a fertility specialist or anyone as of yet, as I feel that my weight is my biggest obstacle, and I'm worried that they'll say there's nothing they can do until I'm back to a healthy weight. Perhaps this is silly of me.

I just feel like I have no direction except for weight loss for now, which probably isn't a bad thing, as I've been concerned about my weight for a long time and not just because of TTC and m/c. I suppose I need to put my energy into that. I've been thinking of taking some preconception vitamins from now for the next few months, and start taking my temperature to chart, in terms of getting ready and knowing I'm doing everything I can.

We've recently seen some friends who all have young children, and while DH never really expresses his sadness over our losses, seeing him so happy playing with those children and just watching them...it really brought home the fact that..we're childless. It gave me more drive to get things right.

Lisa xx