yep we have been dancing, but for some reason i am really relaxed about everything now. went to see lily liu last week for herbs and she was so wonderful. there were heaps of good things i got out of it but the main thing is that she is going to do all my worrying and planning for me so i don't have to anymore. she has put us on a sex schedule but its basically every second day for the fertile week (nothing special that we don't already know about) we're about halfway through now and it has been the first sort of fertile time since january that i haven't been worrying about any of it- no temping, no stressing about bd'ing etc. i feel like it won't happen this month but i sort of feel like it will happen sometime in the next few months, and until then i am just concentrating on being healthy with diet and exercise, and just being happy with DH. it is really good with us at the moment, we are sort of like lovesick teenagers again (sorry if this is waaayy too mushy!) but we are really enjoying being together and not just waiting for a baby like it was starting to be like before a bit.
anyway i have totally waffled on about myself- am just in a really good, happy head space and i have felt really inspired and positive since i saw lily last week.
am really keen for you to do another test just to see, but of course its up to you. i really hope the fs can give you some answers soon.
Issy - have you done any BDing over the past few weeks?? Maybe you hacve concieved on a lunar cycle. ie the moon was in the same position as when you were born?? Apparently this causes spontaneous Ov despite it not being due. you are UTD
pbstar - its so good to hear you being so positive...thats a huge part of being successful in my opinion. Sometimes the pressure of ttc can really get us all down and its so good to hear that your'e just relaxing and taking everything as it comes....no pressure, but I have a good feeling that your BFP is just around the corner I hope the natural therapy works for you hun
Easha - Yes, according to my lunar cycle, I would have ov on the 22nd June, which would perfectly explain the sore bb's now. But I thought since I had a chem pg last cycle, that it would put me out of whack (mentrual and lunar cycle not in sync with eachother). I m/c not long before the 22nd of June, so I didnt expect that I would have ov so soon. But im pretty sure my sore bb's are a tell tale sign. Who knows hey? I guess only time will tell, and sort it out too.
Joey - Hi, I wish i was UTD, but doubtful since I only m/c under 2 weeks ago. Would be nice though....scary...but nice! Again, time will tell I guess, I just have to be patient and ride out the bumps....and there are a few of them
Just a quick message to Issy - Any chance you might have miscarried a twin? I don't know how it works, but I'm sure I've heard of people that have had that happen where one twin miscarries and the other is fine... Maybe another pg test to put you mind at rest might be a good idea?
Need to go and try to get DH in the mood for some BD. I think it's going to be hard work tonight, and I hate being the instigator, lol tmi!!!
Hi krystielove - I dont know how that all works either I have to admit. But it does seem strange that my bb's stopped hurting for a week then started again???? Im almost 100% positive that I just ov early and now im about 10 away from next af, thats usually how long i have the sore bb's before af arrives. I hope she doesnt turn up though
GL with the BD fest - go catch that eggie girl Im sure you can get DH in the mood - try Jen's adivce.... nudge nudge!!!!
I think I might test just to make sure there is no hcg left in my system and to put my mind at rest...
BTW - If anyone is interested, i finally figured out how to upload photos in the member gallery, so you can check them out there if you like....my precious ds is on there too.
Krystie-- re: dialogue in videos! I thought I was the only one that thought that--isn't it funny how fake they make it all sound--it just sounds like they're reading it off a script! Anyhow, that's why you keep the volume down--it's the visual that you need, the words don't even count! In fact, you could just fast forward through all that BS and get right to the good stuff! Or better yet, find one that begins with the good stuff! There are some free internet sites, you know... and I'm sure the handcuffs will still come in handy!
Ooh, it's just barely after midnight there, does that mean I'll actually get to "talk" to you this a.m. instead of just reading your posts later? Unless it's the weekend, I don't usually get your posts until the morning (for me) after you've typed it. at not wanting to instigate the BD'ing--I swear, it's like we're twins, we're so much alike!
Hope you enjoyed the Melb. meet-up, what did your DSS's think about it all?
mollycat--Ooh, I see a nice coverline on your chart that wasn't there last time I looked! Poor, broken DH--what a trooper! Most men are either complaining that they're not getting it enough, while our men complain they're getting it too much--who woulda thunk it? lol...
joey--I never really noticed any type of O pain until after my m/c when I was looking for it! In my case it tends to be on the left (though I've heard it can alternate sides) and is like a pinching or stabbing sharp pain (not painful-sharp, just sharp) in my left ovary. It's nothing like AF pains! Fingers are crossed you found some time to work in the BD'ing!!
Easha--Serving you a nice helping of per your request! Good luck with O this week. Sounds great that you're so positive this will be the month! Let's say it together: you will get pg this month!
WTH--Forget the toilet paper--you just need a laptop to keep in your bathroom! I have a laptop, but I must say even I'm not so addicted that I would take it into the loo with me! It is a good idea, though, isn't it? lol... you never know, that just may end up on the addicted list one of these days!
Ruthie--Your symptoms sound really promising! I'm crossing my fingers that you get a BFP on Friday!! I've done lots of research on early pg'cy symptoms--only problem is I seem to get most of the same symptoms due to AF, so it's really hard to determine the difference! Like you I have a hard time remembering how it was with my DS's because it just happened--and no m/s with either of them, so if I get m/s with my next pg'cy, it will be a shocker to my system!
Toccara--I'm sure your friend will understand your need to keep some distance right now! I've had plenty of time to grieve, and I still don't think I could handle it! Sending lots of
issy--Oh, you and jenushka could be twins you look so much alike! You and DH sure do make beautiful babies--your DS's eyes are beautiful! I'm so glad everyone's uploading photos lately, it's so nice to have a face that goes along with the name! My only complaint is that everyone else looks so good in their pics, it's making me look plain and frumpy! lol...
You are having a strange cycle, aren't you? I agree, you should just test and see... it's good news!
Van--Glad to hear AF has left the building. Must have been all that pushing that made her leave so quick--think I'll give that one a try! Hey, better to be cold-lunged than cold-hearted! lol... Praying your herbs do the trick!
bettyboop--How's it going my pregger friend?
Hey smilanatu--Grrr, it's Monday! Like you said, at least it's a short week. Got any plans for the 4th? How's poor, broken, Lee doing today? Did he survive the BDful weekend? lol...
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Im sure you can get DH in the mood - try Jen's adivce....
re: dialogue in videos! I thought I was the only one that thought that--isn't it funny how fake they make it all sound--it just sounds like they're reading it off a script! Anyhow, that's why you keep the volume down--it's the visual that you need, the words don't even count! In fact, you could just fast forward through all that BS and get right to the good stuff! Or better yet, find one that begins with the good stuff!
at not wanting to instigate the BD'ing--I swear, it's like we're twins, we're so much alike!
per your request! Good luck with O this week. Sounds great that you're so positive this will be the month! Let's say it together: you will get pg this month!
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