thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss #2- June 2009

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2008
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    HI Ladies

    juleswa - thanks, I think I will look into the vitB6 - thanks.

    maddison - I hope you have a great weekend too!! Oh and the "relax and it will happen speech" - why is it always people that are pg or have kids - all without any difficulties - are the ones that are SOOO good at giving that speech - URGH!!!

    Coco - extra good luck for you this month, either way you are going to have a good outcome, having said that, I am a firm believer in Murphey's law - so because you are booked in for surgery .. you may not need it!! fingers crossed for you anyway!!!

    elsielouise - I bled for a week before I m/c, so I didn't bleed as long after the actual m/c, but it would have been close to 3 weeks of bleeding all up. After the m/c my first cycle was longer after the m/c - it took a bit longer to ovulate than usual, because it took a long time for my HCg to drop. I hope your cycle comes back to normal soon. And fingers crossed you won't need the D&C - that was my fear too.

    Ferals - thinking of you hon, and sending super hugs. Please stay, don't feel you have to leave us, after all you are still TTC, just having a very short break. And do keep us posted as to how you are going, and whinge away - I know I certainly have.

    for all the other ladies here too.

    Bring on the BFP's I say!!

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    Rb has almost left the building...........WOOHOO!

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    Jun 2008
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    Hi ladies

    I am feeling odd today I had a temp drop and I felt all funny like, crampy but..I cant describe it, and felt sick. Damnit. Its too early to be AF or anything else so Im trying not to think about it, but it's difficult. I think I should have not temped..might just leave it for now...knowing full well in the morning i will temp tmo.. damn!

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    Hi Girls

    Sorry no perssies today cos I'm going insane. Had temp drop which is slowly creeping up, had big "clump" of ewcm this morning but still getting nothing on the OPK I am so confused and worried that I'm just not going to get my LH surge so no egg,I feel like crying . Just to make it worse if I don't o my cylce will be blown out to 45 days which means we won't be trying again till 12th AUGUST!!!!! Does anyone know they o'ed but not got positive on OPK? Just looking for a bit of hope. If I don't o I'm not risking it next cycle and going back on the clomid ( sod all the natural stuff) even though it makes my ovary kill cos if I don't o that cycle either (which is what happened after last m/c, 2 non o cycles) it will be 112 days of no chance to get pg, that's a 1/3 of a year!!! I hate this, why is it soooo hard?

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    Hi All,

    Coco - could that be an implantation dip maybe? let's hope so!!!

    Sunny09 - Glad to hear that RB has stopped, now onward march for egg to catch those pesky swimmers

    Ferrals - sounds like you may have reached some peace with it for now. I for one, would love to hear how you're going with everything and all of that is still a part of ttc, so i vote you stay!

    Sunbeam - sounds frustrating. I'm in about the same spot as you atm. had a big clump of ewcm and am waiting for the opk to catch up. i'll be testing again this afternoon so hope to see something happening. I hope you do too. maybe the lh surge is just being elusive and hard to catch this month? do you normally catch it each time? the temp and mucus signs are still pretty good predictors so you may still be o'ing but not catch the surge as such?? i hope so.

    AFM - i'm still having blood appearing in my cm and to be honest i'm starting to get a little worried about it. Has anyone else had anything like this at all? I'm CD 13. In the back of my mind i'm thinking if i should put off ttc this month untill i know what's going on, but on the other hand i think that it could just be some wierd hormone thing settling down, or could be just my anxiety about the whole thing making it worse (probably doesn't help that each time i'm on the loo i have a bit of a search to see if it's still there!?!??!?!?!?! sorry tmi!!! i just have to laugh at myself though?!??! lol). I really don't want to put off ttc. my cm is starting to amp up so looks like it's falling into place apart from this damn bloody cm!!!!! it's driving me bananas! I also have sensitive nips which isn't usual for this time of my cycle either. could be an oestrogen overload???? HEEELLLPPPPP!!!!

    has anyone at anytime has this bloody cm?!?!?!?!?!?

    hope everyone else is ok and enjoying your weekends. i just had a nice cup of tea and a cupcake! yum...

    Jules

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    Jules: I damn hope so!!! I know Im happy to be having surgery if we're not pregnant this month, I would much rather have a little pod growing in there! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Do you think that you might be "searching" too much and aggrivating it? It could be little cuts you're accidently giving yourself while searching? Hope it goes away! I didnt have a great deal of bleeding after the miscarriage, the first cycle was heavy and i bloated like a blimp but thats about the extent of my knowledge sorry

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    Jun 2009
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    hi all just thought id pop in for a quick whinge.
    Yesterday i thought the bleeding was almost all gone and was so happy to think i wont be have D&C and then today i went and played netball and such heavy bleeding, so annoying have no idea what is going on with my body
    One good thing i suppose is that the pains have gone away, thank goodness!
    Ferals we would love you to stay here and chat with us for as long as you want and keep us up to date on your progress untill you get your BFP whether naturally or through the IVF
    Sunny glad to hear rb has gone sending positive vibes to you on getting that BFP this month
    Jules have not had any of bloody cm so cant help ya there. Sometimes i think its hard to not investigate when going to the loo we all like to try and understand what is going on inside our bodies even though sometimes i think it just does our head in more than anything. Keep your chin up for a positive outcome.
    Sunbeam i know it all seems too hard and frustrating at times but im thinking of you hunny and sending lots of positiveness your way

    Enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone, im just about to kick back and watch the movie Australia, hopefully its good.
    Take care all xoxo

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    Aug 2008
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    Hi all, just a quick one from me, af is still here, its longer than i usually have and keeps getting heavier, i usually have a 4/5 day cycle, i am on day 6 and it didnt look like it was gonna stop this morning, i hope it leaves soon.
    Its just a reminder of what i lost.