Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April 2010

[Matthew's Mum]

hi all, rose-hoping it is just too early...jellylove-our bodies don't play fair sometimes...ttalovechild-right back at you...jennajayen-great news...ami-hope that line gets darker,fear is understandable,but their is lots of success stories out there..sarahrach-congratulations,wonderful to see another bfp in here...dory-hugs...afm-3 day embryo report ,14 are at where they should be ,sadly 2 are struggling,1 at 5 cells & 1 at 4 cells,nurse said they leave them alone now until friday,which will hopefully be transfer day...few ladies we haven't heard from for a while-hope you doing okay,thinking of you all

[dory]

Mathrews Mum - oh that is really good news! Thinking of you Thankyou for sharing, it helps me to understand a little of what you are going through. Good luck for Friday - transfer day.

Jelly - what's going on today? Any changes? I have everything crossed for you. Go do something exciting on your days off - it will help the time pass. You can be strong and not test. If you test now and don't get the response you hope for it will crush you, or it might just make you manic about testing ( like me, refusing to accept the BFN, but it was crushing nonetheless)

Alice - sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, thankyou. The fear can be crippling, but I am determined to find a relatively positive way through, yesterday was a tough day, but today is better. No rhyme or reason. I suppose it gives you a little insight into what its like to defect from this thread - awesomely exciting because of that BFP but the fear can be as you say paralysing, and 40 weeks is a lot longer than 2 weeks. But somehow the 2ww is more manic. Maybe its just more anxiety compressed into such a short time? The anxiety is a bit like a fire burning quickly in the 2ww but just smouldering in the next stage, sometimes there are flare ups, but most of the time the fear is deep seated and ever present. To be honest? Either one is tough and you'll each find your own way when its your time. I hope yours is soon.

TTCALC - you go girl. I hope this is your time. Thanks for letting me know about the procedure.

And Alice, thankyou for keeping up with everyone, Murraycod used to be so good at that, I guess its time for the rest of us to step up occassionally.

Ami - I am hoping its good news for you....

Sarahrach - am lovin that photo! I am just so excited for you! Will I see you in the other thread? You will be most welcome.

Crafty ( I am going to PM you), Murray, Ferals ( still thinking of you), Bons, Ric, Teagm,MissK( long time no hear), Mildez, MillyD (special hello), Rose, Jenna,Kirsten, Ionna, Em, Blessed ( how is your new digs going?), T Hopes - sending you and anyone I have missed - my love and lost of bdust. be strong, you can do this and you will realise your dream.

[sarahrach]

Thanks Dory - yep, I'll probably pop in there when everything becomes a bit more real.