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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April 2010

  1. #91
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Camden
    46

    Quick update: Went to dr's, did POAS test there, nothing came up. Took bloods, have an appointment tomorrow to get results. Feeling very confused and upset. Dr said that the store-bought ones are often more sensitive than his, and the fact that I've had 2 positives sounds good to him. In fact, he wouldn't have even done a test there if I hadn't insisted on it. Sigh. Why does everything have to be so difficult?

  2. #92
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Perth
    54

    ami - oh hun, im sorry you are confused but the fact that he says ur preg tests are more sensitive sounds good!! best of luck for your results tomorrow, fingers crossed for you hun xxx

    Jenna - will keep you posted on any changes.... im not poas just yet though... looking forward to seeing all your beading

  3. #93
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Camden
    46

    You've got great willpower JellyLove! I'm keeping my fingers crossed too, but it's so hard to keep my hopes up after last time.

  4. #94
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    ami-sorry your dr app left you confused & sad,i have also heard that shop bought hpt are more sensitive,good luck with the result tomorrow,i still think you have a great chance of it being positive

  5. #95
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    Brisbane
    1,606

    Ami, fingers crossed that the blood tests come back positive!!

  6. #96
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Perth
    54

    ami - i know it's hard but you have to stay strong hun! best of luck & lots of sticky vibes for you! xxx

  7. #97
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Camden
    46

    Oops - I did another home test (Pregnosis) and it's come up with a faint positive too! So feeling a little better about it but will definitely feel better once the BT comes back positive.

    Thanks for all of your support ladies - my DH is very supportive but I don't think fully understands the total bewilderment, confusion and heartache that goes into this process!

  8. #98
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Perth
    54

    glad to hear the hpt came bk positive - thats a good sign let us know as soon as you get blood tests back! xx

  9. #99
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    ami - sounding very promising love! hang in there!!! how many DPO are you?? when is AF due??

  10. #100

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Ami-that wasn't my intention i was just telling my experiences everyone is different.

  11. #101
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Camden
    46

    I know Ferrals, sorry feeling super emotional at the moment.

    T-Hopes, AF due around today, O'd about 14 days ago.

  12. #102
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    Sydney west
    38

    Hey all,

    Everything came back clear. All normal. Though the one for the cord hasnt come back yet. She said it can take up to 6 months for that one But proberly wont show anything she said. The placenter showed a blood clot but she said that could of happen while i was being induced So cant say that was the cause because i was tested for blot clots and it came up normal. I asked her about the xray and got there is no chance that that is the reason. Said people have a ct scan when pregnant which way near the baby were the mouth xray is far. So now forever i will be wondering why my lil man got taken from me and it sucks.

    She also took wrote me a referal for a blood test which i had done befor i left to see if i am pregnant. So i will find out tomorrow afternoon. Have to ring up and they will give me the results. Not getting my hopes up. As i havent had a full cycle yet. Its been 8 weeks and ive had one AF next one due next week. She said everyone should wait 3 months.

    Thanks for the chocolate comments

  13. #103
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    missk-big hugs to you,it is hard to accept that someof us will never know why are babies lives were cut short,i know not having a medical cause written in black & white has been difficult for me but i try to think even if i did ,it wouldn't bring 'matthew' back to life,all we can to is treasure our memories of them,& keep them alive in our hearts until we met again..hope your test comes back with a bfp for a earthly sibling for your little man & help heal your heart a little with hope...

  14. #104
    Registered User

    Mar 2010
    335

    Reet: How frustrating for you. I agree with someone's comment (can't remember whose) about wishing there could be a window that would let you see inside your body to know what exactly's going on! Hope you get some answers soon...a sneaky BFP would be good!

    Ami: good luck with blood tests.

    T hopes: Wiping tears away. Pregnant slappers drinking and smoking at the same time, talk of mufflers, two doctors peering up the hoo-haa and a man singing "my lips are sealed". Oh dear. Best laugh i've had in a while! I hope this is your month and all the tests results won't be needed.

    Jenna: i hope you feel better soon

    Miss K: I'm so sorry again about your little man and that the tests haven't given you any clear answers. Hopefully everything is coming up normal because what happened was something so random and a once off that just happens to babies sometimes and while it can't be explained will mean your next pg will be ok. Thinking of you...

    Mathew's mum: hey you do a great job of capturing a lot in a few meaningful words. Thanks for your replies.

    Hi Dory: naaah, i don't think i'm really old. I was just wondering if women's cycles are different in their 30's to their 20's. I'm having wierd O symptoms mid cycle that i never had before...but then again I was on the pill for years and years and then i've had very few periods since i came off it (pregnant, breastfeeding etc) so i'm not sure what 'normal' is. Or maybe it was the mc that mucked things up. Glad to know your due date. I like hearing your updates and knowing you've got another week under your (ever expanding) belt.

    To all the TWWers... be strong!

  15. #105
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Tropical Far North Qld
    731

    yay! my post finally came thru! its a couple pages back tho.. ive written to a few of u.. xx

    ive got so much more to say since then.. bugger! maybe tomoro

  16. #106
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Perth
    54

    missk - well i guess it's a relief that all the tests came back normal - although it is frustrating not having any 'answers' at least your worries about the x-ray are sorted! and for results tomorrow for you

  17. #107
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    In the hills - south east of Melbourne
    569

    Ohhh Ami - crossing everything for you - good luck...

  18. #108
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    Sydney west
    38

    I did a pg test last night. But i didnt do it properly. I went to the loo, Than thought i should have done one. So i got it and went back to the loo(silly me) so i just dribbled on it. This morning there is a postive line on there. But im not sure if its accurate as i didnt do enough stuff on it and it was like 10 hours later that i saw it. So it might not be right. Its a faint line but its there but it might not be right so not getting excited. And scared that if i am, i might be heading for the same out come as we didnt wait. Have only had one period and not a full cycle.

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