Mildez- I agree with Matthew's mum, it sounds like a defence mechanism, he's probably just trying to protect himself. Don't give up hope, its hard keep your chin up especially when your loved one is feeling down but you still have as good a chance as anyone with ivf, you will get there in the end xx

Audax-I have worked with pregnant women and new mums for a long time and I have heard everything, I think people lose perspective, esp if its been an easy ride for them but its still Hey- good for you to hear that heartbeat, must have been thrilling xx