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Sorry for the quick post just wanted to jump on to say:
Kirsten!! Congratulations on your BFP - wonderful news. I hope all goes well for you - best wishes and let us know how you go.
MatthewsMum -:grouphug: lots of love to you - know that we are all thinking of you and holding you in our thoughts and your little embie. I hope everything will be OK. xx
T-hopes, Ferrals and Kit - I so hope you all get your BFPs this month.
MurryCod - I hope you get some answers from all these tests - 19 viles is a lot of blood! Are you eating extra meat to keep your iron up? Make sure you rest up
Hugs to everyone - my Mum always says "your turn will come love" and even when I feel like it never will, the way she says it makes me feel like it might. Passing on that thought to you all.
Alice x
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And Dory - I was wondering how many weeks you were up to - 17!! So glad all is going well for you x
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murraycod I am hearing you re work people been UTD. A total of 8 midwives I work with are UTD(out of 26 and half them are over 40 and finished childbearing so thats just the childbearing ones). Well 6 now as 2 just had bubs the last week. And I was due now also and its so horrid especially when I have been ttc longer then them all (and probably longer then all of them put together) and I am not exaderating.
I am feeling life is incredibly cruel at the moment. Just got home from looking after a lady who had an ectopic 11months ago and had a bub a few days ago. She was talking about how her DH didn't want another baby but she did so she had one anyway and all she did was complain about it crying to much. I couldn't help but wonder why her. I know thats nasty but I just thinking why did she fall pregnant again straight away and get another baby. Gee I feel awful but thats how I felt. I hate how it wont happen for us again :crying:
Well thats not why I got on. Mummyof4 I just wanted to say that when I had my scan with my 3yr old DD I was 1wk3days behind what I thought I was. I should have been 8wks3days and came back as 7wks1day. Afterwards I found out (after she was born) that as I had an abdominal ultrasound I was further along but they couldn't see well and a transvaginal ultrasound would have given me a date closer to what I really was (plus I was in the underweight range for my height 60kilos at 6foot tall so definately no extra padding like I have now. My 13wks scan showed I was 1week ahead of that so called 7week scan and DD arrived at 36+3 from the earliest scan date which put me behind a week (so my dates 37.5weeks) they said she was 36weeks so there scan was wrong but of course thats the EDD they went off so were trying to stop my labour etc. So after saying all this just wanted to say that if you didn't have a dildo cam scan its probably not acurate especially if you have any padding or a retroverted uterus. HR sounds perfect.
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Morning All,
Mildez - Bigs hugs sweety! I think the way you are feeling is completely understandable! You did well to hold your tongue, I dont think I would have. Where is that pram of Justice ?????
Murraycod - Good luck for the latest BT's! xxx
Ferrals - How are you doing? Done molesting Dh?;)
Alice - How are the new herbs and diet making you feel?
Hope everything is going ok with you Mummyof4!!
MathewsMum - What is happening with you?
Hope everyone has a great friday!
xxx
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morning all ,ami-sounds very positive...t-hopes& ferrals-best of luck in your tww girls...murraycod-sorry your feeling down,bound to happen though,thinking of you,hope you get your results back soon,you've got a ivf cycle waiting for you...alice-thanks,i'm very grateful for all of your supportive words & thoughts...mildez-hugs,have you made any decisions about your own ivf journey...afm-still waiting for clinic to call,still bleeding though even with the extra progesterone,i'll get ds off to pre-school,then ring them
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bons-sorry ,missed your post,thanks for asking about me,how are you?
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Matthew's Mum we are starting IVF in September but with the suppressing my own hormones etc it will be more like late Oct/Nov before I have EPU. We are waiting until then so I can afford 2 stim cycles (can only afford one and a half at the moment) and use my PHI and I am on a diet I gained 15kilos in the 2yrs ttc but have lost 4 so far. I really want to be feeling better in myself (body not head) before we start. I am really looking forward to it just wish it would hurry up and praying it wont be a huge disappointment. I would love to have another pregnancy by Christmas :pray:
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Morning Ladies
Mildez-I have the same feeling life just sux i have had a major pregnancy convention since losing Abbi i am now up to 17 people around me have fallen pregnant 15 of those have had their babies 13 boys 2 girls and the two left are young bimbo's at work both smoke and do everything wrong to their bodies and don't seem to realise how lucky they are i hate working with them.
Then there is this male friend i work with his M#LE of an ex wife has 4 kids all to different dads she is 40 years old and never worked she treated my friend like dirt not allowing him to see his son and just being a nut case anyway she buttered him up and was all nice on a access visit with his son and they DTD once and she got pregnant after 1 time she just recently had a girl and wont let him even see his daughter WHY can people like that have babies they don't deserve them life is sooooo unfair.
Bons-I'm almost done molesting DH my egg popped last night so i will snag him again today before he goe's to work i have had no kids since yesterday morning the two youngest are at their nans and the eldest is at his girlfriends so look out sexy man!
Hope you have a great weekend.
Murrycod-I am thinking of you i got your email i will reply tonight when DH goes to work.
Crafty-How are you have you had any luck with those hormones of your's you should be in the tww now with T-Hopes and I.
Mathewsmum-How are you have you heard anything?
AFM-I found out some sh#t news yesterday my gay cousin is having IVF to get pregnant with a unknown donor so with my luck she will be pregnant before me.
And a distant family member who i never see (she is a step 2nd cousin) just lost her baby at 26 weeks from a knot in the umbilical cord so all up a pretty sh#tty day.
God i hope we have some luck this month and snagged a good egg and good swimmer
this whole ttc is exhausting and my vjay jay is getting sore.
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Morning ladies, couldn't resist stopping by and letting you know that I had a big temp rise this morning to 37, from 36.6 yesterday.
Still feeling super queasy, and still not sure what is going on with my body atm, but since resetting FF it is saying AF is due on monday, so we'll see what happens.
Other news, I have to say it, so sorry if I offend anyone or anything like that, but I had one bright light in an otherwhise cruddy day yesterday - DS took his first steps :)
I was so happy and proud of him, took his first 5 steps around 5:30, and by 7 he'd managed to make it from halfway across the loungeroom and down the hallway before finally falling over between the kitchen doorway and the doorway of his room (approx 6m distance).
Just thought I'd share it, as even on our most down days there is always one little ray of light :)
Sending baby dust and sticky vibes out to everyone!
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Jennajayen thats awesome, what a beautiful time for you xxx
Ferrals hope you caught that eggie sweet, and hope your vjay jay feels better soon :)
Anyway, just dropped dd off to care and I call upon the "Pram of Justice" sometimes I actually come really close to telling people to just F##k off!! (sorry) friend of mine got pregnant after having sex once in the month because she thought it would be cool to have babies at the same time. Anyway she found out she was pg 3 days after we lost our angel.
When she found out she was utd she was all" oh I dont want to do it without you....blah blah" anyway today she says "oh I had my 12 week scan looks good, everything was fine, are you still trying or what cause I need you to hurry up so I dont have to do this all alone, I cant believe youre not pg yet!"
I was dumbfounded and have to say she will be doing it alone anyway. She sounded so selfish and uncaring to the situation. Earlier at around 7weeks for her ahe said she wouldnt mind losing it so we could have the pgs at the same time again WTF!!!
Anyway sorry for the rant.
MM love my darling to you, my prayers are with you. I hate bleeding, but hopefully its not a bad thing for you. A girl I know bled heaps and her son is now 3.5. I knwo we all have stories like this but They give me a little hope, love to you xxxxx
Mildez, your feelings are completely warranted xxx
Alice, Thopes, Loops, Murraycod, Kitfaerie, Ami : all love and positive thoughts and sticky baby vibes go out to us all.
So sorry for missing people, I know I have, there are so many of us here :(
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mildez-congratulations on the weight loss,i've always found extra weight finds me easily,pregnant for christmas sounds lovely...ferrals -haven't heard anything yet,lots of bleeding though,don't think a little tiny embryo could still be going,too much blood,of course i'm still hoping but i think i've got to be realistic as well...jennajayen-sounds like your still in with a chance,fingers crossed....millyd-thanks for the positive story,i believe they help as well
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Good morning ladies,
Ami - Hope everything is going ok for you? Symptoms sound good! good luck for your bt's.
ferrals4 - Sorry to hear about all your bad news, hope things look up for you soon :crossfingers:
murraycod - Sorry about the girls at work hun, i know how hard it can be... hugs!
Matthew's Mum - Hope everything is ok hun
JennaJayen - Great news about DS :D
millyd - some people are unbelievable hey? Sorry your supposed friend had to say that to you... hugs
Everyone else - HUGS!
AFM - Well I'm going crazy here! I've started bleeding again! so this my second AF visit in a month now! How many times can she visit??? I don't know what's going on. I tested just to be sure. BFN. So now I really am confused. I take it the bleeding before was nothing? Because this is when AF really was due. So CD1 is now! It's like losing a game and being sent back to the start. I'm so stressed out! :wall: I've been told the best thing to do is wait for this cycle to figure itself out, see where I'm at, wait for the next AF and then begin trying. I'm just going to see what happens with this cycle. :(
Have a good day everyone!
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Oh Jellylove, I'm sorry darling, that sounds so confusing! How annoying is it when the best advice is to wait and see! Are you gonna keep BD'ing or take it out of the equation til you know what's going on?
MillyD: OMG! No way! NO WAY! I cannot believe someone said that, pfft to them! Hugs to you darling, sometimes the world just doesn't get it :(
Ferrals: Sometimes I wish TTC took place in a bubble, where no one could tell us any news or anything like that. I'm sorry darling. Have fun with the final molesting :) Well final for the eggie, not like, final ever, I think you'd go crazy if it was the final ever!
Mildez: Sounds like a good plan, I think the body has a big effect on the mind, so it can only get better! Bring on September!
Alice: I like that thought, thanks :)
MatthewsMum: We're all behind you, no matter what. *Hugs*
AFM not a whole lot happening, had a big chat with my bestest friend (guy) about other friend's comment, and even he thought it was horrendous! He's pretty meh with TTC stuff, he gets that it bothers me and I stress about it, but he's not totally sure why, so that he was upset about the comment too made me kinda go yeah, it was that bad! Trying to concentrate on finishing an essay due Mon, but it's really not as interesting as BB. Think I'm gonna write my thesis on BB, that way everything I do here will be ''research''.
Mwa to all (specially crafty, where you been at?)
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hey ladies, just wanted to pop in this morning and say a quick G'day!
Matthews mum- hope you are holding up ok, any word yet re bloods?? praying for you gorgeous xx
Hope you all have as lovely a weekend as possible! Thank god it's Friday huh!!! Bring on the weekend! Weve been blessed with some stunning weather in Melbourne and I plan to enjoy every drop of Sunshine that I can!! I hate the cold weather!!!
xx
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jellylove-sorry about bfn,hope your cycles settles down soon....kitfaerie-goodluck on essay.i think we'd all get a+'s if we did one on bb...afm-nurse rang,told me progesterone level was 32 so not to low but not to high either,told me to keep taking the extra progesterone support & have a blood test on tuesday.I then asked her' well do you think it could still be positive'even though i'm still bleeding',she said if there is a chance the progesterone will help the embryo and that is all they can do to help ( i think she didn't want to give me false hope)which is perfectly understandable
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Jennajayen-wooo hooo! on the temp rise mine is on it's way up today it was 36.35 from from 36.02 that was my dip before O it was 36.5 before that so hoping it keeps rising.
Isn't it eye watering watching your baby take their 1st step's i still remember my 1st son he was 9mths and walked under the kitchen table he hasn't stopped since.
Millyd-I know exactly how you feel i want to tell some people to f##k off they don't deserve to have babies.
Jellylove-sorry your body is being a pain in the butt it just adds to the stress of ttc hope it sorts itself out soon.
Kitfaerie-lol yes i would go nuts if i couldnt BD any more i sometimes even worry about when we get old and can't physically do it anymore good lord i would miss it i can see myself now in a nursing home sneaking into DH"s room and slipping the viagra into his food he he.
Goodluck on the essay.
Mathewsmum-sorry the news isn't real reasuring but we have all heard of people who have had bleeding and still been pregnant i hope you are one of them is the bleeding like a normal AF or just spotting?
My thoughts are with you this weekend.
AFM- DH is asleep on the lounge resting up before work or he could be resting because of all the BDing who knows but the poor baby i will let him sleep a bit longer than i will wake him up so i am sitting here watching mash on foxtel bored sh#tless i have no kids home and no housework so i popped in here to see whats happening.
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ferrals-it started off as spotting for 2 days then yesterday & today it has been just like af,a friend of mine worked in a nursing home a long time ago & she used to say it was the old men ,they had to watch,she'd caught a few going visiting to the ladies ward
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So am offically in the tww well and truely drowned my little egg there is no chance we missed it now we just have to pray that they are healthy and stick together and make a bub.
