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MIss K - absolutely about the Vitamin A - ok as beta carotene - ie like you find in carrots, but not good in supplements. Some peoeple also worry about Vit A in skin care products -where its called retinol. Vit A is not good for TCC or when you are UTD.
Jelly - I am with Innanna and Bons - my preferred brand is First Response. I think they do a POAS but I just get the old fashioned dippers, economical and reliable.
Thopes - I have never heard of the egg white lube! I am fightened of raw eggs, so I don't think I could use this method.
Jelly - nosebleeds are not nice! I had my first yesterday too. Whilst they are common in pg they are also more prevalent in winter - when your nasal passages dry out and the blood vessels on the surface more fragile.
Murray - I hear you. So does my GF she has a horde of little ones in her family and she and her DH are basically marginalised. They took the option of not getting adults presents but they get the littles pressies.
Mathews Mum - big hugs sweetie. Believe..... or at least I will for you. Come on little embie.... come into the love.
I reckon some of you in here are yoga masters in disguise! All those contortions! I am loving some of the mental images and of course Murray laughing so much she has a spit up in the back of her mouth!
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Well i am on day 10 and my LH is surgeing i had a peak reading on my CBFM and the E2 line is so faint and the LH line is dark so that means i am going to O in the next 36 hours so that is early compared to last month i was on day 16 gee i am glad i brought the CBFM because there is no way to miss the fertile window i have O'd on days 13,16 and now day 11 anyway i am off to work wont be home until midnight then have to molest DH so i will catch up tomorrrow.
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Afternoon ladies :)
Well, I'm 17dpo today, the same stage I was at last cycle before I started bleeding in the early hours of the morning of 18dpo.
I've been feeling really queasy, dry retched quite a bit, threw up twice, found out I have a mild throat and ear infection, but the flu is clearing up quickly since I've been on antibiotics, which is a good thing. Just need all the gunk in my throat to go away now lol
I've been getting stinging and stabbing pains and aches in my left side - around the area of my left ovary/tube I believe. My mind keeps on going to worst case scenario when the pains start happening... I keep on thinking ectopic :( But, on the up side, I'm pretty sure (as sure as a very hazy memory can be anyway) that I had the same pains on the same side with DS in the week/2weeks after our BFP with him.
Anyway, tested this morning with Confirm and it was BFN (I used the 2nd MU, as FMU happened sometime between 5:30am and 7am when I was still half asleep).
Just did another test with First Response Dip Stick and I think I can see the faintest of faint lines but really not sure.
Will test again in 2 days if I still haven't started bleeding, have 2 First Response tests left.
Don't have time to do many persies, so here's a few:
Ami - Congrats darl! Wishing you a Sticky, Happy & Healthy pregnancy!!!
Jelly - It's still early yet. Look at me, 17dpo and not a discernable line in sight!
Ferrals - Good luck BDing!!!
Matthew's Mum - I'm keeping everything crossed for you that it's a sticky one darl!!!
Will be back later on, have housework to do :)
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Alright, I got the beatles playing, cup of hot chocolate and a guilt-free break from some assignment writing! Breaking out with the persies!
So...
The funny bits:
Ferrals: I had the same image with the spit on it thing! Go murraycod! LMAO! So classy. Have fun pouncing on DH :)
T-hope: Yup, knob burn is an occupational hazard when TTC. There really should be a leaflet or something, it could mention vjay jay chafing, special pillows for putting your butt up in the air (ooooh! there should be a long handled pincher thingy for picking up your mobile, i don't know about you guys but my mobile always rang and it's really hard to scooch over to your ph while keeping your hips elevated), a section about how general household items may never look the same again (eg, eggs, and that cup I used one time when i accidentally threw out the special one that came with the dipper preg test :redface:) and some magic way of condensing the 6 tablets I have to take every morning into 1, that would be good (I'm sure ivf peeps have a lot more to add to that one!) And something that would stop other ppl asking any stupid or inconvenient questions.
Well I got carried away, lol.
What happened with the egg thing by the way?
Dory: LOL @ grey bits, oooh if you are going to colour it, get a pink heart! Pretty!
The sad bits:
Saffy: Sorry for what brought you here, but we're glad to have you! I hope you find some support here, looking forward to getting to know you :) I always get sore boobage now too, I thought it might be m/c related? And I totally get the ''I thought TTC would be fun" thing! I said it and cannot believe I was so naive!
MissK: I'm sorry darlin! It sucks. It's a whole new start though, and you never know, the little egg that's gonna burst out this month just might be the one that you get to hold in your arms in 9 months. With some help from spermies of course. And yes, too much Vit A = BAD. The formulated pre-conception one's are all good.
Mildez: Bah, I'm sorry AF showed. Whole new beginning for you too my love xo
IonaMacca: I'm sorry it's a bad day sweetheart, sometimes grief just swoops on us, take the day and do whatever you need to do *hugs*
Everything else...
Hi Inanna!
Jellylove: FRER have never done me wrong. Well that's not true, they've done me wrong a few times by giving me negatives, but they've always done it accurately. Bastards. Better luck for you my dear! xo
MillyD: Eeep TWW! Good luck! You can do it!
Crafty: Hi! Hope your doing well xo
Alice: *hugs*
MatthewsMum: Oh sweetie, it must be tough. Look after yourself and remember that we're here for you, and as Murraycod says we're all barracking for that lil emby! And of course your going to be scared, that will definitely be influencing your dreams, try not to read too much into it *hugs*
Bons: Oh tell me about the ''how long is this cycle gonna be'' blues! I hope it's a BFP for you darlin!
Murraycod: Yeah, my bro is the only one in our fam to have kids so far, so they have plenty of expectations about presents for the kids, but don't seem to remember anyone else's birthday. My sister and I have promised each other to still remember that adults exist when we have kids. I have my 27th birthday coming up in a few weeks, so I'm doing the whole pensive life evaluation thingy, sometimes I feel like 27 is just a little'un and sometimes I think I should buy a walking stick while I can still make it to the shops. Hopefully you'll have your bubba by 31, one year out aint so bad :)
AFM: I feel good. I'm glad AF has left the building, and I'm hoping I get some kick ass EWCM this cycle. Had my lil alco and cheese moment, so at least I feel like I'm doing some justice to not being preg. I have a close friend who's in her 2nd month TTC, and we were having a big chat and I told her that I'd be nervous for her too when she gets preg, just cos of my experiences, she basically said not to worry, cos she can handle a m/c :o Which I'm gonna take with a grain of salt, cos she has no idea. Although at the the time I had a fleeting impulse to throw wine in her face and go ''Can you handle that!"
Our experiences in TTC are worlds apart, and I wouldn't want her to find out about this side of it, but...nyergh...she says some ridiculous things! Did some calculations and realised I'm gonna be testing on my b'day. Not sure how I feel about that. My goal for this month is to not go psychotic. Otherwise DH may be posting here again!
Love to everyone! xoxo
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Eep! Jenna: you posted while I was typing! Can't leave you out! Really hope that faint line get stronger! Let us know how it goes! Babydust!!
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Hi ladies
T-hopes how did the pavlova go ! :lol: did you have fresh cream with it too :rofl: I have done some things in my time but the thought of the egg white turns my tummy ! but you never know if I get really desperate in the next few months I will probs try anything by then ! Looks like we will be in the TWW together again !
Kitfaeri You will be fine you have a good strong man behind you thats a great thing to have I would be lost without mine putting me straight and keeping me positive !
Jenna hope your result shows up soon !
Dory hi there so glad you still with us !
Bons hope AF stays away for the right reasons not to be a pain and miss out on DH being home at the right time ! Hows your mum ! us oldies still have it in us you know !!
Possum oh the shame of what I have to do these days to get a BFP ! if only my kids knew how hard I have had to try over the years to get them ! I am a bugger for punishment !
ferrals oh I am so jelous of your results I never get the damn surge ! I am at the end of my witts wish I hadn't bought the damn cbfm now its making me more stressed ! today day 17 only 1 line on the left so I officially give up with the damn thing ! I did have some cervical mucus yesterday arvo so I got DH to sort me out :dance: so I am praying that 8 hrs with a cup in place and loosing nothing has worked for me ! will do again tomoro just to be certain but who knows if I will be in the TWW or not time will tell.
Hope the chaffing is better for you and maybe it will be knob burn tonight :lol:
The boobie thing well mine used to feel sore only when a BFP was about to be descovered now well they are feeling tingly today and Im only day 17 so god knows what my old body is upto again !
Murraycod send me your postal address. So sorry you feel like that about your family I am praying you don't have many more christmasses and birthdays without your kids they are on the way I promise.
I have a big family as you know but apart from my lot no-one else remembers the kids bdays my little one was 6 on sunday and only got the gifts we got for her and 4 cards all from our own family ie live at home ! so I feel sad they don't get remembered by their aunties and uncles and grandparents but I try to make it up to them the best I can, so I guess it works both ways hey ! I was up till midnight sat making a cake and soft elephant toy so she had something real special from me !
Jelly test again with first response or clear blue anything else is a waste of time ! make sure you not drank for at least 2 hrs before and emptied your bladder 2hrs ago too !
should get a stong urine sample then !
Matthews mum I have bad dreams too last night with my yellow booties under my pillow I dream't I made a baby but then this morning I realized it was probs just wishfull thinking ! but you are just subconsiously getting ready for the disappointment of a BFN when in reality you know nothing yet ! try not to think too much it makes us worse at times it does me anyways ! Your little emby is just getting burrowed in ready for the long ride I am sure of it so be patient ! hopefully I will be right behind you !
Anyone else in the TWW with me good luck and may we all get a BFP real soon ! I will be testing around my 45th birthday 26th April so hope its a good omen I have had a BFP before on my birthday my 40th !!! so I am a strong beleiver in fate
Hope you all enjoy the rest of your day ! Thanks for keeping me sane girls ! ( well DH woould not agree with that he knows I am mad )
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No time for other persies but can't HELP but say something about the eggwhites for T-Hope! If you go to [url=www.lullabyconceptions.com[/url] they have a lubricant called um, Pre-Seed, or something weird, that's supposed to assist spermies on their swim. Not as cheap as egg whites, granted, but perhaps a little less icky?
And how do you differentiate between the egg whites and your EWCM? I guess "Who wants eggs for breakfast?" has a very different meaning in your house now!! hahahah Also, what does your DH think about all of this??? I think my DH would have me committed if I suggested using eggwhites. ;-)
AFM: Still no AF, another BT on Friday - I've got sore boobs & nausea but still feel afraid that this isn't real!
Big hugs & baby dust to everyone, catch up again soon, too much housework/cooking/uni work to do... it never ends!
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Oh craftymummy, we can be testing buddies too. AF is due the 24th but I normally wait till it's late to test!!
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dory,murraycod,craftymummy,kitfaerie &jennajayen-thank you for your kind &wise words...jennajayen-hope that line keeps getting darker...murraycod-did the progesterone supplements give you side effects one day & then not the next.My boobs have been super sore for days & then today not ,you would think if they were sore due to the ps it would be a continuious thing wouldn't you????ami-the nausea & sore boobs(i want mine back)is a good sign,keep that in mind...
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OMG! Ive just tried to get through 12 pages of this thread. Read through it all pretty briefly and I still think its taken me about 2 hours.
Murray-cod ~ thanks for asking of me, means a lot. Hope you are well.
Ami ~ Fingers crossed and :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:. Must be hard to think positive but try and enjoy being PUPO! All the best.
Matthewsmum ~ FX for you 2 and :stickyvibesgirl::bluedust: Wishing you all the best.
Jenna ~ I take it that was you who added me on facebook - thanks hun. Morwell hey - not far from me. GL with it all, FX
Im sorry I know there are so many others in here and I really hope to get to know you all more. I'll try and get in here more often so I can keep up LOL.
Ive had a good laugh reading some of the posts - seems like an awesum thread to be in!
GL to you all with cycling, IVF'ing, waiting, DTD etc etc
Hi to everyone!
AFM ~ Trying to stay busy really, my HCG was down to 3 about 1.5-2weeks ago and I still havent had AF. Really wanting her to come so I'll know my system is back to normal, have been DTD too though.
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Hi Ladies, just wanted to say that i am unsubscribing to this thread. My DH has said that he really doesnt want another baby. Ofcourse i am hoping that i may be able to change his mind but i have a feeling its going to stay a no. I am totally devistated and have so many emotions about having the ectopic coming home to roost now at the thought that i wont have another chance. Reading this thread and getting the updates emailed to me are just too hard at the moment. I really really hope that you all get your BFP. It would be lovely to know that all you lovely ladies were getting that chance.
All my best wishes and ill keep everything crossed for you all!
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Oh Tegam you poor beautiful girl,
May you find peace wherever you end up darling. I hope the love you and your Dh have can get you though this difficult time.
My loving thoughts are with you and DH
xxxxxx
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Tegam :hug: I don't really know what to say. Thinking of you and I hope everything works out.
I don't really know where to write this but DH told me he has this very strong feeling our DD will be his only child and he is a real mess over it. Maybe this belongs in the LTTTC thread more so. This really freaks me out as strong feelings for me usually come true (like from the moment I concieved with my last pregnancy I thought it was ectopic and know one believed me but it was) I have a feeling he has given up and is grieving. I know he has given up and has said just book in for IVF (when I was going to 2momnths ago he said he wasn't ready) but now he said go for it but he knows its not going to work. Grrr so numb right now.
Loops12 sending you AF vibes if you want her or even better a sneaky bean.
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Tegam darling, PM'd you honey X
Matthew'sMum, I only had constant cramping like AF was there, no other sympts, but I didn't have a successfull cycle either!X
So lovely to see you Loops XX Yeah I had a few days away from the computer and it took me just on 2hrs to catch up!
Bit of a mad house in here as of late, but a funny one!!
Hoping you get your AF soon XXXXX
Goodluck with your next BT AMI X
Crafty, I will pM you my details, thank you soooo much!!!XXXX
LOL KitF, glad you got over your hangover :lol: Testing on your birthday eeeek!
Honey sorry about your insensitive friend, we all have them, don't know anyone here that has actually gone through with their cheeky thaughts of throwing wine over them, or puting deep heat in their nickers, but ....sigh....would be funny!!!!
JennaJ, I hope you get a lovely suprise in a couple of days, I will be lurking around to find out how you go XXXXXX goodluck XXXXXX
Dory, yes it has been a bit cheeky in here lately, but nothing like when Audax is around, sigh, I miss her, she always cracked me up at just the right time, and sooo naughty!!
If you are having a lurk darling Audax, I hope you, bean and DH are doing great XXXXX
Ferrals, my FS rang thisafternoon, I am getting my surge too, they got the blood results from yesterdays hormone checks. Sounds like we will be beating it out together again this month!
All of the bloods I had done last week, I have not heard any results so far, can take a while aparently, some were frozen, not sure for what, but I guess the immunology testing can get pretty detailed.
The bloods I had done testerday were to check Prog, Oest and LH, I have to have those same bloods done again tomorrow morning, to make sure the levels are rising and dropping apropriately, so we can time this Endometrium biopsy, which will be 10 days after 'O'.
I don't have the highest of pain thresholds when it comes to procedures like this, am terrified, even though I requested the tests!! All for a good cause though, roll on May woot woot!!!!!
Love to all XX
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Afternoon ladies, Just a quick one for now...
Tested as soon as i got home cos i just couldn't wait... Used the first response ones like you said... BFN for me :( Well I am so confused... I think its over for this cycle now... although cos AF was messed up and came a week early am i to believe that day 1 of my cycle was back last week? when i had my so called "implantation" oh god im so confused. Had a crap day at work too! I was ready to cry! :(
Hope you're all ok ... will come back later tonight x
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Mildez I missed your post,
Honey, :hug: oh dear, please have hope.
Darling I know how helpless you felt when DH told you he didn't want to have another try at IVF.
But take this chance head on, and with hope, with your damaged tubes, there is very little hope of things happening naturally, and yet you could still hope.
The chances of a pregnancy using IVF are much higher, so there is so much more chance that it can work.
Men are funny how they respond to these sort of delicate situations, yours has gotten over his frustration obviously, and is feeling more anguish now.
Go give him a big hugg, and reassure him that you are both strong enough to go this head on again.
Love to you X
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jellylove-i'm sorry,if af doesn;t come in the next few days,i'd test again using fmu.I think if you don't get af but still getting a bfn,cycle day 1 would have been last week,you could always try opk to help to know when you about to 'o'.Ferrals & craftymummy talk about a handy gadget to predict 'o' as well...murraycod-when all these tests are done & resultsare in,you'll feel much more positive about may...tegam-all the best for the future...mildez-men have a language all to themselves ,sounds to be like he wants to give it ago but putting up the "it wont work anyway" for protection,let us know what you decide so we can be here for you...
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Matthew's Mum - Thank you! Think I'm going to give it a couple of days see what happens xx
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Hello my lovelies!
Hope you ar all going well. We managed to see a little heartbeat yesterday. I had a little cry and it is still sinking in. Slowly adjusting to the thought that there might actually be a baby at the end of this.
For avid bejayjay news followers, my cervix looked SO hot.
Was thinking of you Kit, and wanted to put my name down for the Pram of Justice, when a heavily pregnant woman told me that her latest paranoia was that the baby would be born on April Fool's Day. Seriously? WTF woman?
Love to all :grouphug:
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Mildez- I agree with Matthew's mum, it sounds like a defence mechanism, he's probably just trying to protect himself. Don't give up hope, its hard keep your chin up especially when your loved one is feeling down but you still have as good a chance as anyone with ivf, you will get there in the end xx
Audax-I have worked with pregnant women and new mums for a long time and I have heard everything, I think people lose perspective, esp if its been an easy ride for them but its still :wall: Hey- good for you to hear that heartbeat, must have been thrilling xx
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hi ladies!
Audax - ah thats sooooo exciting that you saw a little heart beat! how far are you now? about 6 or 7wks? your doing great love! enjoy it all xx
matthews mum - another day down, another day closer to finding out! im praying for you lovey! i hope that bfp is really really close!
jellylove - yeah its not over til AF is here, my fingers are still crossed for you xx
tegam - good luck with everything, im sorry to hear your having a hard time xx
loops - hello lovey, sending you AF vibes! hope she comes soon x
ami - ah thanks for the web address! Ill have a peek!!! thanks! hope your well, let us know how you bt goes, thinking of u xx
crafty - we'll be testing buddies again! had a temp dip this morn so think im o'ing today!! counting down the 2ww! cant believe this time is here again already!! lol to the pav! hahahhaha!! love it! DH brought the cream hehhehehehe! now thats just rude!!!! naughty! lol
hiya kit - testing on bday huh, lets hope its your best bday present yet... ! hope the charting is going well xox
afm - well i had a big temp dip this so i think that means im o'ing today or just about to?? Does that sound right? sorry, only my 2nd mth of charting and it didnt dip last month! still havent got a positive OPK but they dont always work for me so im a little unsure so were just b'dancin everyday so we dont miss anyhting! cervix is very high and soft!
as for the egg's..... well we gave it a crack! (hehe get it!?) it was a little messy but so hilarious! cant believe DH managed to seal the deal with all the laughing we were doing! so i guess this shows how desperate i am! :shhh: even DH barely battered an eyelid when i suggested but he certainly chuckled!! and no... i will never be able to look at an egg the same way...hehehhehhe!
night girls! xx
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audax-thanks for the update,glad things are going well....t-hopes-i didn't think you'd go through with it!good for you though,hope it's all worth it....saffy -how are you tonight?
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OMG THopes I seriously did not think you would go through with the omelette making last night!!:lol: I guess if it works, all of us teasing you will have eggs on our face!:rofl:
Your DH must have laughed his butt off.....shame!!!!!!
Audax, oh honey Congratulations how exciting to see your little beans heartbeat!!
I think I will bawl my eyes out when I get to see my babies heart beat when I fall PG.
Darling I am thinking of you all the time praying that everyone is healthy and strong XXX
Nice to see we haven't scared you off Saffy, as you can tell, if you don't have a laugh every now and then here you will sure go mad!! I hope you are well XXX
Hmmmm well I just got a knockback!!!;) Gave it a trim and all today, oh well his loss !!!!!
I am so excited, I just got a message to let me know my NewMoon dvd is in early, so I can pick it up in Mildura when I get my bloods done tomorrow, see?!? Perfect timing!!
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well,just went to the toilet & there was a streak of blood,no nausea ,boobs a little sore not like they were though,i'll ring nurses in the morning...
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Mathewsmum-are you sure it's blood and not a pink colour because the crinone pesseries can do that i had pink cm while i was on them and FS said totally normal.
You girls are a crack up that's what i like about this thread we can be so down in the dumps one day and then talking about the funniest things the next.
Crafty-i think maybe the CBFM isn't picking up your hormone levels as they could be a bit low but that doesn't mean you wont O it's ashame because it doe's make it so much more accurate just keep using your other signs and BD every other day.
I had a little issue with a dud test stick this morning the two lines were so faint you could hardly see them the E2 line is reallllllly faint but the LH line should be dark or darker than yesterday but it didnt show up at all and i had already pressed the button so i had to use that stick i didnt have time to do another but i had a big temp drop this morning so i will O tonight or tomorrow anyway i will do another wee stick this arvo to be sure that this mornings stick was a dud.
Tegam-sorry to hear you have to leave but i understand that ttc can be very stressful all the best for the future.
Murrycod-cool we are surging together you wont be BDing though because of the upcomming biopsy will you? what a bummer we could have been poas together never mind i don't think i will get utd this month so i will hang out for May and we can fall pregnant together and our babies will be march babies the same month we lost our little ones so maybe that can bring something positive to a month that we associate with heartache.
Jellylove-:hug:
Audax-Good to hear that all is well you will be fine i just know it.
T-hopes-I am having my temp dip to so looks like we will be busy getting busy lol.
Murrycod-i just went back over all the post's and saw you got a knock back OMG!!! what is up with your DH Men! they want it all the time whinge when we don't give it to them and then knock u back when it's on offer and they say they don't understand us women.
AFM-Had a temp drop from 36.5 down to 36.02 so i am busy keeping DH busy will be back later.
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ferraks-hi,the colour was red,it was a streak ,just that one time,nothing this morning.Going to go ring nurses now...
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hi everyone, spoke to the nurses,they said it could be an implantation bleed(i thought of that,but thought those sorts of bleeds were discoloured)asked about the other symptoms fading,she doesn't think that it was the progesterone suppplements(probably other hormones playing havoc)& if it was the progesterone, symptoms with that can come & go depending on other hormones.
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MM loving thoughts and sticky vibes sweety, let us know what happens xxxxxxx:grouphug::comfort:
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Mathewsmum-:crossfingers:
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Matthew's Mum I've had impantation bleeds with both my pregnancies and they were exactly like you described so :crossfingers: for you xx
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Ooooh, Fingers crossed Matthew's Mum!
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Hi everyone,
Well glad to see that we all still have a healthy sense of humour despite everything else going on! Hmm, let me see, we've had knob spitting, omlette making, chaffage, and wine throwing (you have great restraint Kit, I think I might have slapped her) and The Pram of Justice has made a spectacular come back - ah it was good to have a laugh - I needed it! Thanks :)
And thanks for your comments, feel a bit more brave today.
Bons - hope you managed to catch the egg this month with your DH away
Kit - how's the charting going? Hope you get the best b'day present imaginable
Jellylove - sorry for your BFN. Hope next month is yours
Crafty - happy birthday to your little one. Hope the herbs are working. Your birthday is the same day as my brother! Hope this year brings you your hearts desire
SammyP - sorry about your loss and no one remembering. Your little one is with you always x
MillyD - hope the TWW isn't going too slow. Fingers crossed
MatthewsMum - I know we keep saying it but it really is a rollercoaster you're on. So hard to know what's really happening with all the drugs. Really hope that you've had an implantation bleed and the embie is snuggling in. Fingers crossed. Six frozen blasties is a wonderful result but don't give up on this one yet.
Wouldloveabubba -just wanted to say hi. How are you doing?
Sunbeam - all the best for this TWW. Please let us know how everything goes. Hope this is it for you x
Saffy- I'm sorry your experiences have brought you here. I hope you have a short stay. Glad you de-lurked, there's much love and support to be had here and I know for me it has been a wonderful thread to become a part of.
Dory- hope things are going well for you
T-hopes. Our Lady of The Egg Whites - May the protein help your DH's swimmers and all your all your sons be bishops! (a favourite saying of one of my Catholic friends - apparently it is a great blessing :)
Possum - hello, how are things with you?
Mildez - sorry to read your last post about your DH grieving. We all go through it and I agree with others that he might be just trying to protect himself from more hurt. But really, he doesn't know for certain, none of us can, it is his fear talking. If you have a chance for IVF then I hope you can take it and that it works for you. x
MissK - good luck for this cycle
SarahRach - I think we were in the same bb group - happy to see you on your way again and thanks for the lovely post.
IonaMacca - good luck for the TWW
Ianna - hi, nice to hear from you
Ferrals - good luck this month too. It's gotta be your turn now
JennaJayen - you poor thing, sounds like you've been v. sick. Hope you're feeling better soon.
Ami- good luck!
MurryCod - hope your veins are OK after all that prodding and poking. I'm sorry you are feeling like that about Christmas, Easter etc with no kids yet. I hope this year that changes and May is your turn
Loopos12 - hope you don't have to wait too long for AF and that next month is for you.
Tegam - I'm so sorry to read your post. You've had just the most difficult year you poor thing. This must be very heartbreaking for you. Take care and we're always here - PM whenever you need to. Don't forget I'm just up the hill if you want a coffee and a chat
Audex - I think I would have cried too, hearing that little heartbeat. All the best to you for a happy and healthy pg. We've missed you! I had forgotten your protocol of naming the events! Made me laugh thinking about the Cardboard Box Meltdown you named for me in March. Ah god, if only the Pram of Justice didn't need to exist. People are idiots in what they say - I can't get over it. I want to take out your April Fools fool, MurryCods "you'll never know love til you hold a baby", Kit's "I'd handle a mc", Ferral's "I'll smoke to keep the weight down" and the friend who told me years ago, when I was visiting after she had a miscarriage, "You of all people should be happy". WTF?! Can these people just disappear please? Now?
AFM - finally got in to see the Chinese Medicine doctor/acupuncturist yesterday. She was fantastic but my head is spinning from the conversation we had. Too much to go through now but basically I'm on the strict diet again (no dairy, no coffee, no alcohol, no sugar, no wheat and it goes on). I've done it before and have kept to it in some form for a while now - don't drink coffee and very little alcohol and not much wheat but oh well, if it helps our next go. She said a lot of v. interesting stuff re. my remaining blocked tube being the main reason I can't fall pg or carry a pg. I'd be happy to share with anyone here who has lost a tube no to ectopic but for other reasons like endo. She has confirmed some deep down suspicions I've had for a while regarding my general hormonal health so looking forward to working with her. I asked her outright if she thought I should just give up and she said "hell no, you're not old in my books" so that has bolstered my spirits somewhat.
Sorry if I missed any other posts while typing.
Alice x
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Hello to all my lovely friends in here, I'm sorry I haven't posted in a long time, I was just staying quiet, anyway thought I'd come in here to share my news, this morning I got a :bfp: :leap:
I feel very queasy and excited and a bit scared too.
Hope you can all join me very soon :)
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Kirsten - Congrats on your BFP!
Alice - Thank you! Good luck with your new diet, hope it has the desired effects!
Matthew'sMum- :crossfingers:
T-hopes - Thank you! Hope this month is the one for you!
Well I did another test this morning. BFN for me. I'm giving up for this cycle. and i guess because AF came like a week early I'm on CD9 Instead. Confused now.
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Kirsten!!!! Congrats lovely!!!! So happy for you! Its been a great month for BFP's and so thrilled that your one of them!!!! :happyforyou:
look after yourself darlin and keep us updated!! xx
ferrals - does the temp dip mean im about to o??? It dipped to 35.9 yesterday and 36.10 today?? its notmally about 36.30.
xx
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Alice-we were put on that diet to detox i was told it is standard for anyone ttc as we don't seem to have any real problems other than carrying a bad gene we gave up on the diet it was making us miserable and cranky so decided to limit things like we only have 1 coffee a day no other form of caffine and just try to be healthy in our choices we are taking all the chinese herbs to help boost our fertility so we will see if it helps.
Good luck with it.
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hi everyone ,kirsten-congratulations!!!kitfaerie,ferrals,millyd-thank you...saffy-that's encouraging,thanks.i;ve never experienced implantation bleeding...alice-thanks, glad to hear your feeling more positive,chinese med dr/acu's do put across some interesting views...jellylove-thanks.i 'm sorry for the bfn,you'll have to watch for signs of 'o' now...
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Matthew's Mum - I know! Oh the joys of ttc :(
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Hey Ladies,
Congratulations Kirsten - How very exciting for you! Good Luck for a H & H pg.
Jellylove - Sorry you ended up with a BFN, its terrible when those sticks tease!
Mathews Mum - I hope it was your little emby getting cosy? how long left of the tww?
Alice - I know a lot of ppl who say that herbal medecines and acupuncture help, Good Luck with the Diet.....but what do you get to eat?
T-hopes and ferrals - Good luck catching those eggies! and remember the spit for the knob burn :D
Millyd & Sunbeam - Good luck for the TWW, how long until testing now?
Audex - aka Snuggly - Your VJJ news makes me laugh! I can imagine how nerve racking waiting for u/s and dildo cam is but so glad you got to hear your little ones heartbeat! And even happier they were tears of joy! xxx
SammyP - Hope your are feeling better...xxx\
Hello Possum!
Mildez - Im sorry DH is feeling Down!
Tegam - Chin up sweety, tomorrow is another day, it has to get better!
Kitf - I hope its a super happy birthday present for you!
Crafty - Thanks for asking bout my mum, she is getting ready to BD her heart out in the coming days, or get up to mischief as she calls it :lol: Happy Birthday to your little girl! Im sure you made her day wonderful!
Murraycod - Glad everything is on track for May!
Im so sorry to forget ppl, but there is so many of us and my brain is forgetting so much at the moment, but im am thinking of you all!
AFM - Still no Af, will buy a test tomorrow i think and test on friday morning if AF still hasnt turned up, feeling a bit light headed, but nothing else, no bloating, no cramping, no sore boobs, Im a bit short tempered but that could be from a number of things!
Im going to go and kick furbaby outside before her farts make me vomit!
Hugs to you all!
xx
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No Go for me :shakehead:
AF has arrived, the letdown won't stop me, I will be back for a scan (yes while I have AF)
I hate it, but it's clinic policy. And will start stims again probably Friday.
I havent been posting, as it is so busy in here. I always lurk and see how you are
Best of luck to everyone