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Afternoon ladies, just stopping in briefly...
Kirsten - Congrats darl!
Jelly - Huge Hugs darl! It's still not over until AF arrives, just remember, on average it takes 2 days for the HCG to double, so theoretically day 1 after implantation the level would be 1, day 3 it would be 2, day 5 it would be 4, day 7 it would be 8, day 9 it would be 16 & day 11 it would be 32. There is also room for leeway on either side too, sometimes it can take 3 days for HCG to double, other times only 1 day. I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you!
afm - I'll be testing again tomorrow morning with FMU because as I said above to Jelly, on average it will take 2 days for the HCG to double and I'm on day 9 post conception today, so by tomorrow morning there should be close to a HCG level of 25 in my system.
Hope everyone is having a good day, even those who haven't had very good news recently.
Huge hugs & baby dust to everyone! xoxo
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Hi lovely ladies
Just a quick one today as Im at work. Thanks for all the AF wishes. I feel she is on the way and probably be here on Monday.
Although yes it would be good to have a sneaky bean.
Matthew's mum ~ FX for you :pray:
Jellylove ~ Still :pray: for you, just never know. Plenty of support in here, if not. Hugs
WLAB ~ so sorry its a BFN :comfort: Happy you can try again so soon
Kirsten ~ Congratulations to you, all the best for a H&H 9 months.
GL to all and more :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl: coming your way!
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wouldloveabubba-i'm sorry af arrived,it's not fair,but what can we do?have a cry,pick ourselves up to do it again,hope next month it's bfp for you,let us know how your scan goes on friday,hugs...loops12-thanks...bon-thanks,i go for bt on monday,good luck for testing on friday...jennajayen-good luck for testing tomorrow morning,will be watching for your post...jellylove-keep focusing on that bfp.it will come for us all...
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Teagm - I can't say it better than Milly D did. Will miss you blossom. Go gently.
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Hi gals - I love you all so much, honestly I lurk more than I post and I just love reaeding about what you're up to. Just a quick one from me now I have caught up. Good to see the PoJ ( Pram of Justice has made its return), and VJJ and DC ( Dildo Cam).
Kirsten - congrats sweetie. That is awesome news. My heart just sings for joy for you. How you doing? Has it sunk in yet?
Bons - I hope its more than furbaby farts making you sick.....
Mathews Mum - good luck on Monday! I just so hope its what you want to hear.
Murray - good luck for today.
Mildez - Murray has such a way with words, I could not have said it any better. Hope you're doing better today.
Crafty - dreams.... so hard sometimes.
AFM - Thanks for asking after me. All good here. Milestone today, 17 wks. It's hard to beleive those number apply to me. If it weren't for the crazy fun and honesty of this thread, I would be so much unhappier. Thankyou for being just such irrepressible mischief makers. Good luck with all the BDing and to those in the TWW.
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T-Hopes i PM you
Wouldluvabubba-sorry AF turned up she is a biatch!
AFM-my wee stick this morning was a dud i did another this arvo and major dark line so definately LH surgeing so i have to go catch DH i will do persies later tonight.
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Bons - Sounding good! :crossfingers: for testing, hoping for a bfp for you!
wouldloveabubba - Sorry AF turned up, Keep positive :)
JennaJayen - Thanks hun, I'm not keeping my hopes up cos i have a feeling that the so called "implantation" bleeding was AF. Nevermind, I've had my tears this morning... Happy time again now!
Loops12 - Thanks hun! Hugs to you too!
Matthew's Mum - I'm staying focused, it will happen! for everyone! :)
dory - Congrats on your milestone :D
ferals - Good luck hun
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Congratulations Kirsten on your great news!! :D Good for you
Good luck to the girls testing in the next few days- Bons, JennaJayen and anyone else going for it, hope you get the result you want xx
Wouldloveabuubba- sorry for your result, hope you are feeling ok x
Jellylove- it must be so confusing for you not to be sure where you are in your cycle, I hope something becomes clearer soon, at least if you have had AF you are well on your way to ovulating so there will be less waiting, good luck hun x
AFM- just waiting for AF to arrive this weekend, have been through my depresson about it earlier this week so am actually wishing she would arrive so I can get on with it!
I'm on my 2nd month of clomid but its really my first because last month my DH ended up in hospital over my 2 fertile days-bless his cotton socks- :wall:- so that month was a write off, at least I got a few guilt free glasses of wine in ;)
Question- does anyone else get a few days of spotting prior to AF coming?
I have asked countless drs, F.S., gynaes, etc but get the brush off, I don't think theres anything I can do about it, its just really annoying, I mean if Af is going to come, just come goddamn it!!
Hope everyone else is going ok and theres lots of mini pavlovas and mini omelettes being produced x
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hey gals!
Bons - :crossfingers: xx
dory - 17wks today, look at you girl!! this is fantastic!!! :dance: you must have another scan coming up soon? are you going to find out the sex of your bubba? love to you sweetness xx
ferrals - thx for the PM! I get it now!!!
matthews mum - how are things today?? what did the nurse say?
WLAB - of darlin, crappy AF here huh! Damn that woman! who does she think she is showin up like this!!? im sorry to hear that it wasnt your month gorgeous, glad you can look forward to another cycle soon xx
Alice - heheheh I love it!! thats a good saying! I need all the blessings i can get, thank you! so glad you saw the herbalist!! I love mine so much, im a different person since seeing her - for the better i mean!!
saffy - yes i do get spotting 2 days prior, very minimal! xx
afm - well i have O' pain so im heading home to pound DH! and oh deary - i forgot to take the egg outta the fridge! Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! hehehehehehehe!
xx
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Saffy - I usually get spotting before AF arrives, anywhere from 1-3 days of it, but after my losses, the spotting prior to all but stopped. Hope the witch turns up so you can get on with it. Is DH ok after his stint in hossy?
T Hopes - next big scan is 4 May, 9am. Don't want to know the gender before the big big day. I want there to be some pleasant mysteries in this journey.
Dory
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ps ignore the title of my post it was my image verification words not some crazy code x
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Kirsten congratulations hun, thats great news, so happy for you xxx
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Hi all,
Saffy, I dont get spotting but hopefully you'll egt some clarification soon, Hope hubby is ok...nice timing though hahaha
Dory, 17 weeks!!!! Hooray for you, so happy and have to be honest so jealous!!! Bring on the 4th May 9am, I love scans...xxxx
Alice, I see a chinese herbalist acupuncturist too, its early days but I am loving it so far. Hope it works for both of us and am so glad it was a truly positive experience for you xx
Ferals, I'm glas this moring was a dud, go gettem tiger...xxx
Same for you T-hopes, dont worry the egg will be warm soon hahahaha:rofl:
AFM :2ww: blah!! I am getting sick of wishing my life away to two weeks time hahaha
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Congrats Kirsten n your BFP, hope you have a H&H pregnancy
Saffy - I get spotting a couple of days before AF is due, hope either AF is on her way
Dory - :dance: on reaching 17 weeks!! Hope the next 23 weeks fly by
Jellylove - sorry to hear about your BFN, hopefully this month is urs. I have had AF come at CD23 and CD25 so hopefully your body starts sorting itself out
Hi to everyone
AFM: have been feeling like crap the last couple of days!! wish it would go away
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Just a quick one, AF arrived.......i knew she would turn up eventually! :shakehead:
But because she didnt turn up til 5 this afternoon, is today cd1 or is tomorrow?
xxxx
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dory-17 weeks,that's great...saffy-i don't usually have spotting before ,sorry don't know.Are you having any side effects from the clomid?The implantation bleed can it come & go then come again?...t-hopes-might have a bit of a chill factor there girl.Nurse said the blood could be implantation,other symptoms probably hormones playing havoc from the ivf meds...ionamacca-hugs...afm-blood came back this afternoon,only a few spots red,then just then ,bit of brownish discoloured mucus.Nurse said to keep using progesterone pessaries & go for blood test monday,so i just have to wait,i can't do anymore retail therapy (already spent $500 on the credit card)this week.dh was good though just said i should of bought something for myself.
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bons-sorry af turned up.I would say today is cycle day1.it still hits you when you see that blood even if you were expecting it,hugs...
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Bon's-when i was doing IVF the FS said if AF turns up before lunch it is cycle day 1 if it turns up after lunch the next day is cycle day 1 and on my CBFM it say's the same if AF is later in the day than the next day is cycle day 1 hope that helps.
Mathewsmum-fingers crossed for monday hope it's just the hormones playing up.
AFM- not real talkative tonight have a few things going on so i wont say to much other than to all the new girls with their BFP we didn't get to know you long but good luck for the future and to all the long timers having a rough trot hang in there girls we can do this.
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Saffy - Thanks hun, I know... hate the waiting- that's the worst! Hope AF arrives soon for you and doesn't drag it out!
T-hopes - :crossfingers: you catch the egg hun
Iona Macca - Thank you! Hope you feel better soon hun
Bons - Sorry AF turned up :(
Matthew's Mum - retail therapy is the best hey?
ferrals - You hang in there too girl! hope things are ok!
Have a good night ladies xx
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Morning ladies...
Well, it's a BIG FAT NEGATIVE :( for me this morning. Temp dropped way down too.
I'm gutted, haven't had a cry yet, but that will happen at some point. Just as well I bought myself a pack of easter eggs yesterday, I'm going to need them. So now I know that it was the flu & infections making me feel queasy, and that I O'd late.
That will make this cycle go almost to 40 days... it's never been that long before... 37 at the most, and that was when I was 19/20 prior to losing my 4th angel.
Anyway, that means I'm out for the month. DH would have to have some super spermies that live for 10 days for us to have a chance this month, and as that is extremely unlikely, if not impossible, then that's it for the month.
Just waiting for AF to show now :(
I'm going to try and take a bit of a break from BB until I get close to O next cycle... it's hard to believe that the next one will be Month 9 of TTC for me and DH.
At least after next cycle I can get some tests done, my new doc told me that he'd be willing to do them after 9 months of TTC because of my history (That was back in late Jan after the Chem, I haven't been back since so he doesn't know about the mc in March).
I'm thinking I might make a booking early... And then I'll have to print off my charts for him, and make some notes from the relevant pages of my TTC journal... so much to do, hopefully it will keep me busy enough to take my mind off things for a bit.
Bons - HUGE HUGS darl!
Matthew's Mum - I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for good news from the BT!
Hi to everyone else! I'll see you all in a few weeks :) (Or sooner if I can't resist the temptations any longer).
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Jennajayen-if it's any help i will tell you a bit about me ttc when i was younger i fell pregnant at 18 on the pill got married and had my son Dean then when he was 9 months old i fell pregnant after a broken condom one night and lost it at 7 weeks so we decided to start trying again with temp chart the lot it took 9 months to fall pregnant and i was only 20 there was no reason it just took a while then Brodie was born when Brodie was 15 months we decided to have one more and we only tried once as i was working and i fell pregnant straight away and my Jake was born when he was 2 i fell pregnant on the pill again (hence the reason i cant take it) i lost it a 7 weeks then my marriage started going south and my hubby at the time thought another baby would fix the problem so one night when i came home after a party a bit ****y he didnt wear a condom and i fell pregnant so i left him and chose not to have the baby skip forward to my now extremely happy marriage and it took us 5 months to fall pregnant with Abbi which as you know we lost her and now i am in month 5 of ttc and still nothing even thought i know the PGD in NOV upset my hormones i still can't believe it is taking so long because i use to get pregnant pretty easy anyway i guess i am trying to say that sometimes it can take a while for no reason my 2nd son took 9 months to conceive so don't panic just yet it will happen.
AFM-another peak on my CBFM and my LH line is real dark so more BDing tonight i was a bit sore last night so made it a quicky so i am not to sore tonight not real romantic but baby making sex is not the same as wanting it rip your clothes off and go crazy on the floor sex like i said before why is it we are fertile on the days we work and are busy and have to try to find time it's so annoying.
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Kirtsen: Hooray! Best of luck for a happy and healthy 9 months :)
Jenna: Oh I'm so sorry darling! It hurts when everything points to yes and it turns out to be a no :( Be kind to yourself today, make sure you have a good cry and enjoy that chocolate. I've had the same long cycle thing where DH and I have just completely missed it, it sucks :(
Teagm: :hug: I'm so sorry, we'll be thinking of you sweetheart :hug:
WLAB: I'm sorry, deep breaths, it's a whole new start again and you never know what can happen.
Jellylove: You have an amazing spirit, best of luck for this cycle my dear xo
Bons: I'm sorry AF showed, her sense of timing is just inappropriate! This cycle, this is the one!
Saffy: From what I hear spotting isn't unusual, I'm usually so anxious to be on my way again that I count practically anything as Day 1 after a BFN, just want AF to show up and get out of the way so we can get on with it!
T-hopes: Love your work :) TTC will definitely stand out in your mind in years to come!
MillyD: Yeah the living in 2 weeks blocks gets old quite quickly! Good luck, fingers crossed for you!
Ferrals: Hope your ok, us long timers will show em how it's done soon :)
MatthewsMum: Retail therapy is a good distraction! Oh I really really hope Monday goes well! Positive thinking my love!
AFM doing ok, ordered a stack of HPT's from the net. I'm trying out a new theory, usually I try not to test too frequently, but then testing is all I think about and I become stressed. Well, more stressed, lol. Sooo, this time, I'm gonna test whenever I darn well want to, even if i have to sneak out of the house to do it! And because I'm temping, I should know exactly how many DPO I am. Super organised KitFaerie this month! So ridiculously ready to be pregnant. Fingers crossed, but definitely not legs.
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morning my fellow TTC'ers! + a few UTD'ers!
I got a positive OPK last night and my temp went up this morning! Toot toot!!!!
Just had to share that cause im super exicted! I'm feeling great about this one!!
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I am officially in the 2WW! Giddy up!! :dance:
Sorry to be all about ME today but i feel really happy! Yippeeee!
Will post agin later on today! xx
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T-Hopes-i had my pos CBFM yesterday and today and my temp went back up this morning so i would say i am in the tww with you and we should be testing the same day we will BD tonight just to be sure lets hope you and i have a double whammy.
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oooooh ferrals im excited!!!! O'ed the same day, temp rise the same day.... UTD here we come!!! I feel like dancin :dance: im bustin some moves under my desk!
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what day will you test???
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You guys are cute :) Major BFP vibes for you both, lets get your butts out of here! Go BD, visualise and elevate those hips!
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I am as excited as you T-Hopes doing my own little groove at the moment lol.
I will test at 10dpo so maybe the 25th or 26th to be safe AF is due 30th
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kitty kat - Yeah lets blow this joint!! you'll be right there with us!!!!! Toot toot!
PS - egg white is the best lube in the world! Im tellin you ppl... give it a crack! hehehe! Ive already run outta eggs this week!! :redface:
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Hey Ladies...
I feel awful for not being in here as i use to be at first..
With 5 kiddos they keep me busy..
I feel like i dont belong here anymore since im never on here.. :(
I shouldnt feel that way but i do.. but im sooooo behind on everything :(
Things have been good with us.. been busy ,meetings. and im going back to school...
we got are custody court hearing on April 22... For David and Leigha.
I'm going for Blood work and a MRI o my head for the putitary tumor since its starting to mess with me again.. lots and lots of headaches..
My ticker says to test in 4 days.. no sure why its so soon since i didnt start till march 24 and i till got 10 days to go to make it that date this month.. so i guss ill just wait and see..
I guess im not feeling like its my month with soo much going on..
April 29 is still the Lapascope(sp) to check things...
Well i guess i blah blah to much now..
I wanted to stop in and wish everyone good luck and best wishes and Congrats to all of you lucky mommy's :)
xoxox
Anita
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T-Hopes-i was watching a mcdonalds add on tv last night that showed an egg being cracked for the breaky menu i thought of you i will never look at eggs the same way lol.
Kit-come join us chicky we will make it a trio.
I'm off to work girls talk to you later.
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hi all,just a quick one from me,bleeding has gotten heavier this morning,rang nurse ,need to go for a blood test,she has doubled my progesterone support as apparently bleeding can been a drop in progesterone,see what the results say,.M y heart is still hoping ,but my head is different matter.so many tears,i'll catch up with the posts later,got go pull myself together to go for test.
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Ferals, T Hope - I am doing a dance for you (in my mind, too much of a spas to actually do one). Kit hope you make it a trifecta.
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Mathew's Mum - big hugs my blossom. Lots of love to you....wish I could come and sit with you for your test but my moral support will have to be the cyber kind.
TTCALC - you belong here girl! It's just that you feel ot of touch. That's ok. I don't mind if you don't have time for persies, I like to hear from you and what you are doing. Good luck with the 20th and 27th and with Court.
When are you having you pituatry scan/mri/cat scan? I had a cat scan of my pituarty and they gave me something that made me feel like I had wet myself before the test. It's uncanny that you can feel like you have flooded your pants and they are as dry as a button.
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Matthew's Mum - thinking of you today. :hug:
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matthews mum - im thinking of you... hang in there and breathe. we are all here for you. i cant begin to imagine what your going thru, you are so brave xx
dory - thanks for mind dancin with us! :dance: get your groove on!!
ferrals - hehehehehe! I think i have tarnished everyones views on eggs! sorry ladies!!! I think i'll test on Sat 24th, ive got to face a newly pregnant friend that day at a wedding so it would be good to go with that under my belt - literally! May be a little early though i know!
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Another quick one, at work again
Jenna ~ So sorry hun :comfort: Keep trying you'll get there! Enjoy an alcoholic drink and chocolate and coffee - if you like those things.
Matthews mum ~ Hang in there, still have FX for you and sending sticky vibes.
Ferrals ~ Hope you're ok and enjoy the BD'ing! I dont even know what BD'ing stands for exactly. I use DTD (Doing The Dead) LOL
GL everyone, keep trying and enjoying the BD'ing LOL
Lou xo
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Matthew's Mum - best of luck with the blood test, my thoughts are with you, stay strong xx
THopes-who cares if none of us eat an egg again, as long as it works!! Your DH is brave to go along with it, mine would not cope-hehe
Ferals- I always O whenever I am on nightshift or evening shift and DH is getting up at 5.30 am, he is always asleep when I get home its not fair, why can't it be when we go for a weekend away, it NEVER works out like that-murphy's law x
I'm off to work, nothing to report here, forced myself to go to the gym today so feeling good, hope everyone else is too :grouphug:
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hey guys i need some more help Sorry :(
i had my scan today and got to see the little bean! nice strong heart beat 119bmp but bean is only measuring 6weeks 2 days instead of 7 weeks 3 days.
i know my dates could be out and stuff BUT if the scan dates are right it means that i got my BFP at 7 DPO and my HCG levels were 167 at 9DPO it just doesnt work???
Does any of this sound right or should i be concerned?
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MatthewsMum: Oh darlin, it sounds so tough! You are doing so well, and we will be so proud of you no matter what happens xo
TTCALC: Your still a part of the group! Your the part that we all miss and really like hearing from, even if it's not as often as you used to, we understand. Keep posting! Grr@you for thinking you should stop, lol. Grr I say :) A confused cycle can still be a good cycle, hang in there!
Loops: LMAO! I know you didn't mean it, but you said doing the dead instead of doing the deed! Had some very strange images running through my head! BD = Baby Dance. Just a cute way of saying shag really, although ferrals uses a number of different words, lol.
Dory: I like it when you hang around, hugs to you my love :)
Saffy: As long as you BD before you O it should be all good! But yes, murphy's law sucks! Lets ban him from the TTC board.
AFM Oh I would love to make it a trifecta! So ready to be a mama! If it doesn't happen soon I'm gonna start putting the cat in a bonnet and taking him out in the sling. I think the maca is working, I have more energy and we've started the BD marathon again, even though I think O'ing is a few days off. I would love to O at day 14 again, that would just be lovely. And I'm taking a leaf out of Audax's book, and have exercised every day this week, doing the ''at least get skinny" thing!
Love to everyone xo