maz like sally says, the white cm sounds like it is creamy cm and is what you usually get before you get the watery and/or eggwhite cm.
satya it would definitely suck big time with your DF being sick, but even more so because it is self inflicted, I think if it was me I would still be getting him to perform, since it is all his own fault, easier said than done though, I know. Hopefully he picks up enough to get some bd'ing in before O. Also you usually get a white dot on your chart if your temp is taken more than 30 mins either side of your normal temp time or if you have ticked the "sleep deprived" checkbox.
*las* I really hope that your next cycle goes well for you and you end up with a bfp it would be really frustrating wanting to TTC but not being able to afford the treatment you need. for you.
Bun I have absolutely everything crossed for you, I do uncross them on the occaisions I need to though, but that is usually just briefly the shots sound like a real pain (literally) I hope that you get your bfp in a week, it must be so hard not reading into any of the symptoms you are having but like you said you would expect the symptoms to decrease at the end of each 3 day cycle, not get worse. good luck.
SallyJ nice temp jump you have there, lets hope it stays nice and high.

had a pretty big temp drop this morning, so I feel pretty confident that O is today or tomorrow, didn't get a bd in tonight, dh played golf and was too buggered, but he has been warned to conserve his energy for tomorrow night, and more than likely Friday night (but haven't told him about that one yet, i'll only notify him one bd at a time LOL). Still no +ve OPK though so feeling a little annoyed with them atm