thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss April/May 2009

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2009
    Inglewood, WA
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    Boble - Sorry to hear RB has arrived! Hopefully this coming month will be the one!

    Teme - Sorry you are here but it is a wonderful, supportive place to be in a hard situation.


    Meh - Keep putting it out there! Im totally fixated on touching wood when I have a pregnancy thought. Each to there own!

    AFM - just a quick question, is it better to have lots bd'ing during 'o' time or once a day or every two days. Im confussed as to which is best!

  2. #2
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    Jan 2009
    169

    welcome Teme - i hope you find support here...

    and thank you Sally... we may have to give it a break this month with the testing we are going to get done.. but maybe not. guess I will have to wait and see what the specialist says. They are sending out an information pack and i have to call when i receive it for further info. I have only recently been told that if you bd every 2nd day you will have a better quality of sperm, but the quantity will be less. so you will have less of them with each ejaculation but the mobility of them will be greater. So I guess that is a good way to do it. best of luck.

    Meh - happy birthday to your little man. I understand what it is you are trying to say. I too am greatful for my 9yo son.

    Im a bit disappointed to read above that tickers from our pregnant friends have to be disabled to post in this thread. I don't know about anyone else but it gives me a little bit of hope to see them ticking along at the bottom of some of the posts. I guess I will have to lurk in the pregnancy after m/c section to find that little bit of hope

  3. #3

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    You may find it encouraging Boble and that is a good thing - and something I can understand. Conversly many others that have just had a loss find it very very confronting. As this is a Miscarriage and Loss section of this forum our aim is to be as sensitive to grieving parents as possible. While you may be unaffected - I can speak from personal experience how confronting it is to have a ticker flashing at you at around the amount of weeks your baby "should" be at.

    My in box is constantly full of complaints about this - a rule we have always had that has been let to slide a bit lately.

    We need to be as sensitive as possible to the most members we can. If this alleviates some peoples pain then I think that is a good thing.

    If anyone has an issue with it - please take it off the forums and contact me by PM.

    Thanks everyone...

  4. #4
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    Feb 2009
    Griffith N.S.W
    69

    Happy Monday everyone Sally I am glad you got the Opk+ my fingers are crossed for you this month I am crossing my fingers for me also it's been 10 weeks this week.
    Welcome all Newbies it's good to have you could join us on out ttc journey but I am so sorry for your loss I understand the desperation to be pregnant again you will find many of us share the same feeling so best of luck.Have a great day everyone I have decided to read a book today it's my day off and it's a real tear jerker I think it's what I need and it's raining yay.

  5. #5
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    Oct 2008
    Tasmania
    214

    Hi everyone,

    Mannie - Thanks sweetie. I'm feeling a lot calmer. You are only 9 DPO so I hope it is too early to test

    sally - Hope you caught that egg We started to BD every 2nd night rather than trying to BD as often as possible during o - it worked for us!

    Greenslw - Sorry you aren't feeling the best, but as you said it is for a good cause and hopefully this is your month!

    Lulu - Welcome. Sorry for your loss/es I am so glad you have found this thread inspirational, it really was my saving grace! In saying that though I hope your stay here is short.

    Susiet- Welcome. Sorry for your loss . Hope your stay here is short.

    ferrals & sparkles - Just want to give you ladies a big cyber

    Boble - Sorry RB has arrived! I you get your BFP soon

    Meh - Happy Birthday to your DS! Hopefully by starting to 'relax' about having a baby then your BFP is just around the corner - that happens quite a bit! You sound like you are in a really good place, well done sweetie

    Charm - Sounds like you have had a well deserved relaxing day, good on you!

    Jen - How's the chart whisperer, I see you have another one to stalk!

    Big hi to everyone else and sending some baby dust and no AF vibes to this thread. May it bring as many (actually more) BFP's than the last one!

  6. #6
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    Jan 2009
    A Pirate Ship
    3,627

    YAY I'm back from an amazing 3 nights camping with DH and I missed BB like crazy!

    Jen how funny is your camping story

    Flowerchild Thanks for the amazing job you do moderating

    Welcome to Missymoohoo,teme, Susie-T, LuLu, Sparkels and Ferrals4 I look forward to sharing the journey with you

    JackJack I dont' think we've met but welcome back

    Boble and Shortcake what a bugger to see AF arrive I couldn't wait to see if there were more BFP from you two!

    Mrzbaby... COngrats honeyon your BFP! Wow there has been so many lately!

    Hello to everyone else

    AFM we got heaps of practicing in for this coming weekend of ttc hehehehhe I'm in good spirits and looking forward to my very own bfp in about 3 weeks YAY

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Mar 2009
    Inglewood, WA
    120

    Cherished - GLad you enjoyed your camping! Im just starting my TWW (I think) so nervous and excited and everything!!! Im slightly nervous we have bd'ing too much... WIshed I had waited and didnt bd everyday since thursday... I was nervous I would miss the window. WHat will be will be I guess!


    Charm - Looks like we might be TWW buddies (almost).

    Boble - I hope the info is helpful and you never know you might not be out for trying this month? Fingers crossed!
    Bugger! I was all nervous I wouldnt know when I o'd so we covered all bases since mid last week daily.., Hope it helped and didnt hinder!

    Back to school tomorrow... Shame the holidays are over!