thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss April/May 2009

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2008
    NSW
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    Well my few days of happiness and joy have crashed around me and I got back a BFN this morning still only 10dpo. I used a pregnosis clear test and I read on the weekend ( in the instructions) that the test could give false positives from clomid and I rang the company yesterday ( they were very very helpful suprisingly!and they said if I am on clomid the best chance of finding out if I am UTD is either AF late and then POAS and take that result as real or a blood test.
    Rang FS and he said i just have to hang in their till af DUE THEN WE DO THE BLOOD TEST. hE DOESN'T LIKE TESTIING BEFORE af AS SOMETIMES THINGS DON'T (sorry it is in Upercase I have to go to work and can't retype it not yelling promise ) go well with the cells and the baby dosen't form and you still get a AF on the day due or one or two days later... - apparently very common.... So no BT and have to wait but to be honest apart from a minor amount of cramping ( ovary area cramping so a little worried ) and me turning into Mrs Mega Biarch !! (not normal for me...I have no other signs so I think the clomid, may have made me O but it has also give me a false result.
    So sorry i don't have some happy news for everyone.... I sit here and wait ........Next test Sunday ( sorry Jen but then that would take me past when AF is due and I can have a more reliable answer, I am also too scraed to put my positive on the test in case it jinxs me )... Em

  2. #2
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    Jan 2009
    A Pirate Ship
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    Mrzbaby So sorry! I had no idea you could get a false positive (regardless of taking any meds)... I think it's great that you know now and you can try to relax more over the ttw untill either you do or don't get af 'then' get excited iykwim. It's also great info for anyone else on clomid to not test early (even though that is nearly impossible when ttc!) Personally I like to wait untill at least af is due anyway. Well my fingers are still crossed for you honey

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Sorry mods, but I'm really missing seeing those tickers.... It's just so disheartening.... it's like coming home and the couch being gone... the one comfortable spot in the house, KWIM?



    Ok, girls... going to try to cheerfully continue on with the persies that I didn't finish before, but I'm just not feeling that cheerful, so bear with me....

    I would like to mention first though, and I can only speak for myself, to all those proud BFP'ers, that none of you have EVER offended me in any way, shape or form! So please, no apologies from any of you! You have all truly inspired me, and have given me the ONLY hope I have in my life, and I truly just have to say that I think it's a shame. (Please no disrespect to the mods is intended, it's just really upsetting to me)



    sparkles--Glad to hear the bleeding has slowed. I also had a natural m/c, bled for 7 days, then had a 25 day cycle on that first cycle after. HTH!



    Shortcake--Wow, you had your net up and running quick--a truly dedicated bb'er! lol... Hope you're enjoying your new house despite it's first RUDE unwanted visitor! D@mn RB!



    smi--I hate Monday, and change, and RB, and change, and RB--but mostly change! It's just not the same, is it? I'm glad you enjoyed the sunshine I sent your way! Can I send you some wind next?



    susie-- I'm so very sorry for your loss, but if you're in search for like-minded people that can only think of getting pg, then you're in the right place! I look forward to sharing your journey!



    Lu Lu-- I'm glad our little recruit, boble, has introduced you to this fabulous thread and these amazing women! I wish you the best of luck today with your BT results!

  4. #4
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    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Sorry, got a phone call and didn't want to lose that post... part 2....



    Greenslw--Sorry you're feeling cr@ppy! I'm saying lots of prayers that the end result will justify the pain it took to get you there! Big *hugs*



    Mannie--Thanks for the info! But actually, thanks to Mel's blocked tubes (sorry, Mel, not that I appreciate that yours were blocked, but YKWIM) I did a little research and read about the dye... I'm planning on asking my dr. about both, especially since Mel's tubes were blocked for over a year, and she never had any indication that there was a problem! I hope your TWW is quick and ends with a BFP!



    meh--Hang onto that inspirational grateful feeling for being happy with what you have, it's a blessing! Belated happy birthday to your DS!



    teme-- I'm sorry for your loss and pray that you find comfort and support among these amazing women! *hugs*



    cherished--Welcome back from camping! We missed you! Best of luck with your upcoming shag-a-thon and get ready to catch this



    Mel & Hannah--Still super excited for you both! No worries, I'll come snooping in PAML to watch those tickers move along--I don't want to miss it!



    erybery--What a fabulous miracle you've got growing inside you! I'm so, so, so happy for you! I would just like to reiterate what I said before, you've done nothing offensive, and I'm sorry that you've had to take down your ticker while your little trooper is so deserving of it! Big *hugs* and bellyrubs for that amazing little girl of yours!



    Big for my beautiful friend, mollycat! I think I'm the most upset about not seeing yours!



    mrzbaby--I'm so sorry, honey! At 10 DPO it's not over yet, tho... still sending positive your way!