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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April/May 2010

  1. #307
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
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    thanks girls for your support, dunno what Id do without you... im definatley out though, temp drop to 36.44 this morn, hopefully AF hurries up so i can start a fresh cycle! Only thing worse than AF... is late AF!!!!!
    This ob/gyno im seeing if low-intervention..... I think i need a HIGH one! I'll give him the boot i think... back to researching for me!

    sorry for no persies, ill be back once i get over myself! xx

  2. #308
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    Done - given the other guy the boot and booked in with a new bloke that also specialises in IVF incase we need to go down that road! I feel better now!

    Now how are all you other beautiful women today?? xx

  3. #309
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
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    morning everyone, t-hopes-sorry your dr didn't see it your way,i don't think threr is any harm in getting a second opinion if that is what you want...craftymummy-if af comes on time,yes i will be a may girl,hope it is a good month for this thread...murraycod-hope af behaves,how long will your clinic wait for her to come before they give her a push...thinking of you all

  4. #310
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    Sep 2009
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    t-hopes-sorry missed your 2nd post ,glad your feeling better,when can you get in to see the new dr,hope you don't have to wait to long...

  5. #311
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    Dec 2005
    Brisbane
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    Ferrals - I just want to come and give you huge hugs!!! So sorry to hear about all you're going through!!

    Just a quick one for me have heaps to stuff to do and just read up on 2 pages....will drop in later

  6. #312
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    Good on you Thopes- you proactive chick! Makes you feel better to be actually doing someting positive doesn't it?

    Matthewsmum- how are you going? I think May will be great for us all!

    Murraycod- so sorry you had to go through such a painful procedure, it sounded v traumatic...you must be so brave!

    TTCALC-sorry to hear about your DH, hope all works you for both of you, frustrating having your op cancelled as well, lots of love from across the seas to you and your family for whatever happens xx

    Ferals- what to say, just a lot of and for you lovely xx

    Mildez- hope you get a lovely surprise soon, you aren't asking for anything outrageous, just what other people seem to get so easily xx

    Possummagic, Crafty, Kitfaerie- hope you are all well (get that essay finished Kit!!) and lots of coming everyone's way!

    AFM- got an early pos OPK so but feel like it is futile, to think I used to love DTD!! Now its just a chore and so much is counting on it...

  7. #313
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
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    Matthew'sMum, they will wait as long as it takes, judging by my bloods I should get AF around the weekend. Looking forward to the visit!

    Ferrals, hope you are feeling better, not long to go untill you get your kittens!! How will your dogs go with the new kitties??
    My Labrador is besotted with my kittens and follows them everywhere, but my Foxie, well, she want's to attack them, so I have to put her on a chain when the cats come out for a play. I hate putting her on a chain, but looks like it is going to take some time to get her used to them. If ever. When they are big enough to run away it won't be so bad, but ATM, it's pretty crazy in my camp!

    THopes good on you for getting a new FS, tell them how you wan't to be more agressive with falling PG straight up, so they know where you stand. Well done X

    TTCALC, you are a buisy girl!! Nice to see you drop by X
    Sorry your op was cancelled, but may3 isn't too far away X

    Saffy, IKWYM about the chore thing. Even though DH and I don't rely on the BD'ing because of the treatment we have been going through since last August, it has somehow taken all of the fun out of it for me. I have a lot of trouble getting....ah....horny or in the mood. We try to keep our relationship as normal as possible during all of this, because we need to focus on fun things together like we always have, but yeah the bed thing.....sigh...I can't be bothered with it!! Thats sad I know

    Hi Everyone XXXXX

  8. #314
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    Aug 2009
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    Crafty- You can make the appointment without a referral but will need to present the referral at the consult. I am not sure if you "need" a referral or whether its just with one you get to claim on medicare.

    T Hopes - that sounds rough sweetie. Why so long before the sperm testing appointment? Does it have to be on a particular day of "his" cycle? Glad you have changed Dr's - you might get a different opinion. Good to see you got your mojo back.

    TCCLAC - Thinking of you and Ron at the mo. Its good for him to have his test done. Sorry your procedure was moved.... more waiting.

    Bons - thanks for thinking of me - today is a good day!

    Ferals - still hoping but know you are def. excited about the fur babies!

    Murray - love the names of the fur babies. I let DH name our last arrivals - Ford and Arthur from Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy. he did well with his other naming rights "Kaspar". That's my nerd boy for you. Weird thing is? I heard a mum call out to her toddler the other day "Arthur". It had me ROTFL. One of our fur babies is a puker. When he was a kitten he was always vomitting and had the squirts. Lots of visits to the vet. He grew out of the worst of it, mostly, but is still a puker. One of the joys.... being woken up to a cat puking on the bed ( I now have some newspaper or an old rad nearby to shove under him so I don't have to wash the doona) or somewhere else in the house and just hoping its on something I can easily wash. The weird thing is when he runs in from outside to puke on the carpet. Go figure. How disgusting. But now, it's just a part of our life and he can't help it.

    Hi to everyone else, you are as always, in my thoughts. I am still catching up, it's so busy in here, I miss a couple of days and kapow lots of reading to do.
    Last edited by dory; April 29th, 2010 at 12:26 PM. : typos & addition

  9. #315
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    Hi Ladies
    I can't believe how quickly this thread moves, I hate the fact that so many of us have had losses and have to go through all of this crap!

    Thanks for all your thoughts and wishes and for thinking of me everyone.
    Did another POAS Tuesday arvo and another BFN. AF still hasnt arrived but I have a lot of AF type pain. Think she'll be here this weekend. I bloomin well hope so

    Dont have much time so can't really do persies sorry but just wanted to come in and say thanks for asking after me and all your loving support.

    Murraycod ~ thanks for everything and thinking of me xoxo. GL for your cycle, FX this is your time!!

    Wishing everyone all the luck in the world and

  10. #316
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    surrounded by textbooks, cat toys and love
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    Dory: I have a quick cat story! Our cat George (he's very curious) doesn't puke that often, but when he does, he does it from a height! He'll climb up onto the top of his cat scratcher, or onto the back of the lounge and puke onto the floor, and he fully leans over so he gets it on the floor! No idea why he does it. Crazy cat. You'd be around 19 weeks now? Your doing so well sweetheart, so proud of you

    Ferrals: Whenever your ready we'll be here, you get your furbabies tomorrow!

    T-hopes: Good job! Lets hope this doc is a bit more pro active! Hope AF shows up soon, bring on the day 1!

    Saffy: Assignment nearly finished! I promise! Glad you got the positive opk, sorry that DTD feels chore-like, I hope your mojo comes back.

    Murraycod: Hope AF shows up promptly! It's May on saturday!

    AFM, 7 DPO today. Boobs feel sore sometimes, but it's not constant, temp is still going up. I dont know what that means though (LOL!) DH gets up before me (he makes coffee, good boy) and comes back into the bedroom to ask what my temp is, then says ''Ahhh" like he understands exactly what's going on, cracks me up. Probably start testing tomorrow. I wanna start while i still expect to get BFN, for some reason I feel like that will make getting a BFN overall easier to deal with? I hate those 3-10 minutes of waiting, so I'm gonna desensitize. Well, that's the plan. It may end up with me beginning the next 7 days crying in the bathroom, but you never know.

    Back to the assignment, sigh.

    Love to everyone!

    xoxoxo

  11. #317
    Registered User

    Aug 2009
    1,874

    it - OMG that is hilarious. Go George. No explaining quirky cat behaviour. God luck with that assignment and the testing. I know what you mean about desensitising. Hope it works...and that when you get a result you don't expect you are sitting down!

  12. #318
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    Feb 2010
    Thornleigh, Sydney
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    Hi Everyone,
    Im having problems with my internet at the moment, so im using my phone!
    Im sure i have missed plenty, but just wanted to say im thinking of you all.
    Xxx

  13. #319

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Good God i go to work and come back to a heap of post's where to start.

    T-Hopes-I had a big temp drop aswell so looks like we will get our Biatches! at the same time.
    And good on you for getting a new FS i pushed and pushed my geneticist and scientist when waiting for our testing and the markers for our probe to be developed i paid $1500 dollars for it so i rang and hounded them weekly until i got what i wanted and that was to speed them up so insted of 6 months it took 2 i figure i paid for it so i have the right to know what is going on.

    Iona macca-Thanks it has been a very long 11 months i need to have a meltdown from time to time.

    Saffy-I know it can become a chore when BDing i try to spice things up when i know i am getting close to O i will send hubby dirty txt msg telling him what i am going to do to him when he gets home i will try to change the routine and tease him when kids are at school to get him going we have a movie night where we fool around on the lounge and end up chasing each other up the stairs to the bedroom it is hard but i dont need to be in the mood he does becaues he needs to do the job and when i get him in the mood it doesnt take me long to follow so we still go nuts over each other i find it hard if we both have to work around O time and we have to schedule BDing that is a big turn off but we do what we have to do to have a baby.

    Murrycod-I am feeling ok use to the idea that i am not pregnant again just hanging in there until we see the FS.
    And my dogs are outside dogs they are to big for inside dogs they have a fancy kennel and a huge bed with a big fluffy mattress in the gararge and dozer has a piddle problem when she sleeps sometimes she wets the bed she sleeps to soundly she is so cute she is only 4 years old so not age related.

    Kitfaerie-hope you break the BFN run in here and i get to pick my fur babies up at 8:30 in the morning so i will spend all day playing with them i will post some pictures later in the arvo.

    Hello to everyone i have missed i have a heap of housework to do i will be back later.

  14. #320
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    Apr 2010
    Tropical Far North Qld
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    T-Hopes - Oh my god! read this!! If you have irregular ovulation or PCOS, clomiphene pretty reliably will cause you to ovulate. Simply ovulating more frequently and appropriately timing intercourse may be all you need to get pregnant. If you already ovulate, clomiphene will likely cause you to develop multiple follicles, resulting in multiple eggs, and the hope is that you will have a higher likelihood of one of those eggs fertilizing. (Clomid - Conception)

    See u shld be on it!!!! it wld do u good i reckon! if ur new doc wont prescibe it to u i will defintely send u some of mine!

    AFM- AF arrived today!!!! WOOHOO!!!! this is the LAST time i hope i say this in many many months FX. As soon as she arrived i called DH and told him all excitedly and guess what the first thing he said to me was.. oh thats no good.. and im like WHY??!! Its GREAT!!! him: well i guess that means no nookie for me for the next few days.. OH BOOHOO!!! he just doesnt understand! bloody males!!! if he misses out for a few days atleast he will be even more excited to when AF goes and i have started on the clomid! yay yay yay!!! its just really weird cos i havent got any of the usual cramps that i wld normally get.. maybe tomoro? or maybe the provera brings on bleeding but with no other symptoms.. hhhmmm..

    Anyway just a quick one.. had to share that info i found with t-hopes!
    A big HELLO to EVERYONE!!! xxxxxxxx

  15. #321
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    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
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    Time for a new thread everyone.

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