thanks snugglybean

I thik when it comes down to it, its not really stuff that gets me down.. Its really more like a status thing like.. I get afraid people will se my life and think "wow what a loser"

Thanks heaps tho yeh al our furniture is second hand too We found our coffee table on the side of the rd with a "you want it, take it" sign on it lol, I bought our tv off a neighbour for i think 60 bucks.. Mum gave me the tv stand, And we bought our table from DH's workmate who was getting a new one. all the other stuff is either from lifeline or garage sales..

The only thing we bought new was our couch, and DS has already proven how dumb that was by drawing on it in ballpoint pen. mind you Ive come to like it cuz its like I will have two yr old boo on my couch forever

The thing about the car is.. we really do kinda need it.. Our suburb isnt counrty but it is sortof spread out and its a long walk back from the shops loaded up with groceries and now DS wants to walk its even harder.

I feel heaps better tho.. And i usualy do.. I just sometimes get down a lil bit aboutit when i see everyone else getting so far ahead.. but ur right.. they never stop wanting more.

isnt it funny how one person can make you feel so much better thank god for this forum and all the loverly ladies in here