thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss August/September 2009

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  1. #1
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    Sparkles - i really feel for you, I'm in exactly the same place. I feel like every single person in the street is pregnant or pushing a baby. One of my best friends is due to give birth on Monday - they weren't trying and at first she was very ambivalent about being pregnant - and I have told DH he can take the gift. I'm just too upset to do cooing. I don't understand why some days I'm totally ok and resigned and get the whole nature doing the right thing, and other days I want to punch people randomly and sound like I've got Tourrettes and walk the dog muttering swear words...

    I hope you are feeling better x

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    Kyra has that line gotten any darker today hun, i so hope it has for you.
    Sparkles i know how you are feeling ive been having a really down week this week, not too sure why but have been very emotional and cranky and just dont want to see or talk to anyone. I too think im coming up to o tme so that could be it, who knows. Keep your chin up hun and hopefully youll get your sticky bundle really soon.
    zstar hopefully you get some good news with your blood test results today, let us know how you go.
    Chickybabe good luck with the test results today, hopefully they are good news for you and this is a really sticky bub.

    AFM i have a question to ask. Ive never had ovulation pain before that i know of but yesterday and today i have had some pain lower in my abdomen but only on one side at a time. Is this likely to be ovulation pain or just something else maybe?? Also with temping what is considered a temp rse when ovulating?? Thought i might try the OPKs and temping to see if this helps.
    Hope evryone is having a good week, nearly the weekend YAY, so sick of work this week it has been an absolute nightmare.
    Talk soon
    Last edited by eliselouise; August 20th, 2009 at 11:40 AM.

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    Houston.......WE HAVE A HEARTBEAT!!!!
    Measuring to date, actually now due a day BEFORE my birthday, NOT my actual birthday! Heartbeat was LOUD and STRONG!
    THANK YOU everyone, for all your kind words and thoughts, they've paid off for DH and I!

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    WOO HOO Sunny that is awesome news, you and DH must be absolutely over the moon

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    Sparkles - hunny, I have been thinking of you this week, knew I should have PM'd you! Hope you are OK.

    Kyra - have you done a test? I'm assuming yes, and it's a bfp, and that's why you haven't been online - because you are dancing naked in your backyard with excitement (my imagination is awesome!)

    Sunny - can't wait to hear how your scan went! Fingers crossed that all is well.

    chicky and zstar - sticky vibes your way. Thinking of both of you, and hoping your littlies pull through!

    AFM - had my blood test today. Was less upset about it than normal - I normally cry on the way there or the way home. I think because I was having the day off today anyway, so the test isn't an interruption today. The folk at Pathology were so nice, they know me quite well now. I'll call soon to get my results - trying to hold off until 12. Went to see the EPAU while I was there, the gynae happened to be free so I had a quick chat, she seems very pleased with how my levels have been going. There will certainly be a party when I get the all-clear!

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    Sunny that's AWESOME! Woohoooooooo!

    Let's hope that good news comes in fours today! (kyra for bfp, chicky for sticky baby, zstar for sticky baby and sunny with awesome baby!)

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    I am back from the hospital -

    Had an ultrasound - just a normal one not internal. Could see a tiny black spot that she said could be a pregnancy but too hard to tell at this stage.
    Then went and got my BT results - quite low level of 248. I am 4 weeks but they said by 5 weeks they expect them to be between 1000 and 9000. Cant see that happening at this stage.

    Feeling really sad !

    I go back Monday morning regardless of the outcome. If i dont miscarry over the weekend then i have a BT at 9.30am and an appt at the Preganacy assessment unit at 11am. If i do miscarry then i still go at 11am so they can monitor me.

    I feel like a zombie - very tired and emotional. Going to have a Nanna nap when DS#3 goes to bed.

    So now i wait !
    Thanks for thinking of me ladies !

    xoxox

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    SUNNY - THATS FANTASTIC NEWS

    Congratulations

    xoxoxox

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    Sunny -=- im so happy to hear that news! I just know that babys gunna stick for you!
    CB-=- Well at least he found a black dot probably ur baby I know how hard it is but try to stay positive hun ((hugs)).. You must be having a girl cuz shes already a drama queen!! seriously tho all my hopes to you for a sticky bundle!
    Milly -=- Sorry AF showed up.. shes such a *****! Keep trying, Pg wil happen for you k!
    Murphys law is just running a bit late this month..
    Hey eliselouise! I dnt know ive never had O pain before but ive heard it can happen.. should prolly ask a doctor tho-- Gud luck tho
    zstar-=- Sticky vibes hun and big (hug) Why do our children insist on freaking us out form day one?
    Sparkles -=- Im so sorry your feeling down. I have my fingers crossed pg will happen for you soon!! I know what its like to wait soo long that it just feels like it will never happen.. so im sending u lots of virtual hope k
    London miss -=- Ive ranted about those same feelings before, i concentrate them mostly on a certain girl i used to be friends with.. Ive already gone into detail many times on here b4, but i def know what it feels like to want to punch somebody >
    Sparkles-=- So gud that ur levels are going gr8! Pretty soon ul be back in the sex boat makein a baby! and Had too have a chuckle at your imagination-=- man i really do wish I had the confidence to dance naked in my back yar! But alas, I think Id scare off the neighbours!
    AFM -=- I did another test this morning and yes the line is darker again So Im biting my nails to the bone and organiseing a doctors appointment -- Soo hope this is the one!!

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    Youare n't 5 weeks tho are you CB you are only 4 weeks! Those levels sound fine to me!!

    BFN for me this morning.... *sigh*

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    Hi ladies,

    Sunny: Awesome news. Couldn't be happier for you. I understand your anxiety though. I was exactly the same on Monday. Its almost if you expect the worst then you think you will be able to deal with bad news better. Unfortunately either way bad news would be devastating, so allow yourself to be excited and positive about this one. Congrats on the HB.

    Kyra: Congrats on the even darker BFP.

    Chickybabe and Z star: Hoping for the best news for both of you. My thoughts are with you both.

    Tanya: Sorry about the BFN, hoping your time is just around the corner.

    Eliselouise: I never thought that I could feel ovulation pain either, but then one day I guess because I had been monitoring everything so closely I felt it. It is a dull ache on one side only (the pain correlates with the ovary side that is releasing the egg). Hope this helps.

    Hi to everyone else.

    Cheers
    Lisa

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    December 2008 (13 weeks)

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    sunny - massive news!!!!

    chickybabe - hang in there - numbers can double quite easily every day - STAY POSITIVE!!!!

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    yay sunny, and yay sunny baby, that is so great, im very happy for u hun

    kyra yay for u too on the line getting darker

    tanya, sorry for the bfn, lets hope its just way to early

    4dpo so still early days for me